I'm just grateful there are people who are actually crazy enough to want to do those specialties so I don't have to.
I don't understand that drive for several medstudents to have the lifestyle of a stereotype surgeon or ob-gyn doctor that works terrible hours, & is up most of the night, I emphasize the word stereotype because its not fair to think all are alike.
I mean if your guardian angel were to magically appear in front of you, show you 2 paths, one of which you had to choose: one was like the above, the other had you working 40 hrs a week, only more if you wanted to do so, and not having to do calls unless you agreed to them, which one would you pick?
And its not like most of those with that drive to work crazy hours seemed to me to like those fields for the sake of liking them. For example, I actually really enjoyed surgery. I did brain surgery on rats in graduate school. I found it quite peaceful to do that while playing some classic rock or symphony in the background. The act of surgery was highly calming & meditative for me. I love building models, and get the same type of high when doing that--and it was strangely similar. I don't build models like a grade school kid does. I'm a bit OCD with it--researching the item heavily, wearing magnifying glasses, consulting with some master model builders who've worked on major movies (e.g. the guy who actually designed the actual USS Enterprise for the movies). Most of my modeling equipment is the same equipment used in surgery-no kidding.
Why I didn't choose it was becuase I liked psychiatry better, and the terrible hours. If surgery was 9-5 (like it is in the UK), I wouldn't have minded it so much, but still would've rather done psychiatry. I wouldn't have even gone to medical school except out of the desire to be a psychiatrist.
But what I didn't get was my colleagues who went into surgery, I never heard any of them mentioning wanting the type of lifestyle the career usually demands. They knew what they were getting into, but chose to do it anyway. While in residency, I'd hear them all rant (understandibly) about the stressful hours, how they've gained 10-20 lbs, and didn't even have time to pay their bills.
To be fair, of course there are several great surgeons who love the field, and perhaps something of the long hard hours was something that may have even attracted them to the field. I think most of us admire people willing to do hard work for a noble purpose, and would feel gratified in doing so. I just know that I am happy coming home, unwinding for about 1/2 to 1 hr, and do think I'm living a more fulfilling life not being woken up in the middle of the night.
I would certainly hope someone wouldn't only go into psychiatry because the hours may seem a bit easier.
As for myself, maybe I'm being a bit of a hypocrit because I'm on the toughest unit at the hospital I'm at...something I didn't object to when the administration asked me to do it. I figured, "hey I'm young, I just graduated, I'm going to do this & put the feather in the cap". Its very demanding work, but it is burning me out. Well, at least I do get to go home & not get woken up at 2am.