jerseygirl22 said:are you in a committed and loving relationship?
Is your significant other both supportive and willing to do things to make the both of you happy.
In my opinion, love is not just a sentiment, it is also a choice. Love requires commitment and regard for the other persons feelings and you both need to make the choices that sustain and nourish a healthy couple over time.
make sure your priorities match your significant others and I think you will have your answer
oh and I'm in a similar situation and trying to figure these things out too