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Just looking for some insight from people that have started families during residency. If I stick with my chosen specialty I won’t be finished with residency/fellowship until I’m 39. The thought gives me anxiety/fear because I want a family. I keep hearing about 80hr work weeks in residency and not being able to be an active parent for those who have kids and basically relying on the spouse to care for the kids mostly. How realistic is it to be able to date/start a family in residency and actually be an active parent? I can’t imagine waiting until 40 since that pretty much dashes my chances of having kids and I’m honestly tired of putting my life on hold for education. Currently single and focusing on making it through med school.