Long story short I like general surgery but I don't think I can go into it. I have observed in three hospitals that I've been with now that general surgeons get the pretty bad cases that are extremely messy and complicated (some of which they have no control over whether they get it or not too). They have no control over who they see and the hospital they worwk for demand they meet a quota of cases or else they fire or find another doctor to replace. I have observed this "quota" is met via overnight call or on the weekends very frequently b/c day cases "aren't present at the time". The gen surgeon also told me they (the surgeon) get a take home pay of $200 about for appendectomy...and then nothing no reimbursement for the follow-up care of the surgical patients (stated that non-OR days, follow up days, their visits aren't reimbursed or paid for). Additionally the residents for 5 years don't even see the OR most of the time (younger ones) and are there for cheap labor and internal med "house" 12 hr shifts and overnight shifts. The surgeon I worked with didn't operate as much as they couldve (4 operations every OR day, with 3 OR days a week) but they said semi-jokingly that the surgical tech (who worked their butt off, think about 70 hours per week with various surgeons) actually made MORE than the surgeon...
I have pretty good numbers and a good CV, Emergency med seems to win out as the cushy job but i could be wrong
Sounds like you're basing this off of a very specific experience you have had at the hospitals in your area. You're not really describing Gen Surg very well, but I absolutely wouldn't want it because of the hours/lifestyle. To address a few of your points:
-"get the pretty bad cases that are extremely messy and complicated (some of which they have no control over whether they get it or not too)" - welcome to all hospital medicine ever. The people are going to be the sickest and you will have little to no control of who you see if you're working in a hospital. If you want to be able to choose, go into private practice, but even then there are quotas, liability, and sometimes you deal with things you didn't want to deal with.
-"They have no control over who they see and the hospital they work for demand they meet a quota of cases or else they fire or find another doctor to replace." - sounds like a competitive area that likely has a saturated market. I know a few surgeons in not so desirable areas that bring so much money into the hospital that the hospital wouldn't dare threaten or fire them.
-"The gen surgeon also told me they (the surgeon) get a take home pay of $200 about for appendectomy...and then nothing no reimbursement for the follow-up care of the surgical patients (stated that non-OR days, follow up days, their visits aren't reimbursed or paid for)." - sounds about right to me. There's a lot of stuff in medicine that is not reimbursed. I would get used to it. How many of those appy's are they doing a day though? I rotated with a doc that was doing 4-5 of those a day with a few hours in clinic. If they're doing less and they're not getting more out of their base salary, then they should reevaluate their work.
-"Additionally the residents for 5 years don't even see the OR most of the time (younger ones) and are there for cheap labor and internal med "house" 12 hr shifts and overnight shifts." - Again, yeah and? You're describing a lot of training programs. You're definitely there for cheap labor. Years 1-2 you're learning how to manage the floor and observing/first assisting a bunch of cases in the AM. That's how it works. You build up to increasing autonomy as your skill set grows.
By all means go into EM, but be aware that a lot of the things you are worried about are present in a lot of hospital medicine. If its not, its usually replaced with something else to complain about. Do what you love doing. If that's EM, do that. If its Surgery, do that. Find what you enjoy, and spend 30 yrs of your life practicing it.