I just got off the phone with my financial aid advisor who helped me make sense of my award. My Family/self contribution was about 12000 or something. She said that I can replace that number with the rest of the stafford amount, then with private loans (which ended up being the same lender--THE) So I had 8500 Staff/Sub.; 32200 Staff/UnSub.; some little other loans like Perkins, scholarship, etc.; and I had like 8000 left to be covered by THE as a non stafford loan. All that totaled the 62xxx dollars that is our budget.
I thought I would include this post so that everyone can see an example of what my (a typical student with no parental contribution) loans look like for this first year.