Where I am a resident, a number of the attendings (especially the under 50 ones) are on Facebook. I recently had an attending add me as a friend.
I am wondering how it is if an attending I work under has added me as a friend. It seems a little awkward to accept their "friend request", as we just have what I thought was a professional relationship.
On the other hand, it could be really bad if I don't accept the "friend request". I am worried if I work with this attending again (which I will), he may hold a grudge against me because I didn't accept his "friend request". It is like I am backed up against a wall and forced to accept it even though it feels a little weird......this man who can evaluate me in the future now has access to my status updates and pictures that I reserve only for real friends.
Right now I haven't accepted it or declined it....don't know what to do. Also it get the creeps that this attending could be a little stalky....but if I don't accept he will hold a grudge and take it out on my next evaluation.
Kind of stuck here.
I am wondering how it is if an attending I work under has added me as a friend. It seems a little awkward to accept their "friend request", as we just have what I thought was a professional relationship.
On the other hand, it could be really bad if I don't accept the "friend request". I am worried if I work with this attending again (which I will), he may hold a grudge against me because I didn't accept his "friend request". It is like I am backed up against a wall and forced to accept it even though it feels a little weird......this man who can evaluate me in the future now has access to my status updates and pictures that I reserve only for real friends.
Right now I haven't accepted it or declined it....don't know what to do. Also it get the creeps that this attending could be a little stalky....but if I don't accept he will hold a grudge and take it out on my next evaluation.
Kind of stuck here.