So I am in a little bit of a dilemma. My girlfriend and I have been talking about getting married for quite some time now. We have a very strong relationship and truthfully the only decision we have to make is timing. We are trying to decide whether to get married this August or next May. I graduate from UG this year, she graduates next year. The PT school I am hoping to attend and our UG are 1:45 apart. We have thought of getting married in August and then living about 30-45 min away from my PT school (I have a bigger SUV and she has a smaller car for gas mileage and also the area is much nicer in that time range from the school). We both realize that it may be best off to wait til May however I guess our situation is a little unique. We are both strong about our convictions with our Faith so more than likely we think its best to not stay under the same roof, just me and her, which poses the problem that we may not be able to see each other often. This will make this entire year after I graduate awful. (Right now we are both in dorms at a Christian school where members of the opposite sex are not allowed in each others rooms. I know its awful and I'm ready to get out of here).
So my question is, does anybody have experience with this and how hard would it be financially speaking for us to live off of loans for one year while also having to commute? Obviously we are the only ones that know our relationship but would in be worth it in your (the reader's) opinion?
Also, I will be coming out of UG with around $15k in debt and the school I am hoping to attend will cost a little over $30 for in-state tuition. It's debatable how much debt she will have because her parents are paying for it but perhaps once we get married they will no longer. She will also have a job working in admissions that will bring in $1000 per semester (not much but obviously every little bit helps. Perhaps it will cover some commuting expense). My SUV is paid for and I believe her car will be given to her once she is married.
Anyways, I just wanted to get some thoughts on this topic. Its getting close to that time that if we want it to be August we need to make a decision soon. Thanks.
So my question is, does anybody have experience with this and how hard would it be financially speaking for us to live off of loans for one year while also having to commute? Obviously we are the only ones that know our relationship but would in be worth it in your (the reader's) opinion?
Also, I will be coming out of UG with around $15k in debt and the school I am hoping to attend will cost a little over $30 for in-state tuition. It's debatable how much debt she will have because her parents are paying for it but perhaps once we get married they will no longer. She will also have a job working in admissions that will bring in $1000 per semester (not much but obviously every little bit helps. Perhaps it will cover some commuting expense). My SUV is paid for and I believe her car will be given to her once she is married.
Anyways, I just wanted to get some thoughts on this topic. Its getting close to that time that if we want it to be August we need to make a decision soon. Thanks.