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DoctorSaab

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Are any of you married and in dental school?

If so, how hard is it to manage? C'mon there has to be something the gov't does for you...
 
I won't start dental school until August however I can speak from my undergrad experience and say that if it weren't for the support of my husband, I don't think I would have graduated, let alone get into dental school. When we met, I was a freshman with a horrible GPA and this crazy notion that I wanted to be a dentist. He was a junior, first generation college student who had to work through school, just like me. He actually ended up being not only my boyfriend, but the best mentor I ever had. He's been there every step of the way from organic chem through my interviews. He even worked extra hours so that I could quit my job and study for the DAT. And now that I have actually made it this far, he is excited beyond belief and wants nothing more than for me to be successful in dental school, so I know that he'll be even more supportive once school starts. I guess it all depends on your spouse and their character because their are lots of men out there who could not deal with their wife being more successful than they are. Actually our plan is for him to eventually after he has concluded his own educational goals work from home and be a stay at home dad while I will be the primary bread winner. That being said, I guess you should really know your mate and their ability to be supportive before you get married during dental school.
 
I agree with u dentist2b.If it was nt for my husbands support and encourage ment ,I wouldnt have made this far.He too is working hard to keep me comfartable and help me graduate as dentist here so that once I am settled in my career he will be able to relax and enjoy life for a while and later experiment with other things.I think it does matter a lot if ur spouse understands and support u.

As far as govt doing anything with the married couple I dont know doctorsaab!Even if they do I doubt it would be for us citizens??
 
I'll have to agree with everyone else. In a lot of ways, being married actually makes school easier. You don't worry quite so much about your social life, and it's good to have that support there. 🙂
 
Yeah, I would say there are advantages, even though I am not married and don't plan to be anytime soon.

Less loans to take out and better finances, provided your spouse has a decent job.

Less time and money spent chasing tail.

Moral and emotional support and stability.

Readily available study partner.


There are some obligations too, to be sure, but I would think it would be helpful to have a spouse during school.
 
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