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Hoya11 said:we like smoking at bars
we dont want to bother anyone who is a non-smoker at bars
we wont smoke at bars, or anywhere, where you non smokers say we cant.
but you cant just say, "ok, dont smoke anywhere but your house"
thats not fair. thats not what we meant by trying to accomodate your wishes.
what we meant is: you have to actually go through the trouble of designating smoking/non smoking bars/restaurant.
Then, we will follow the rules and all will be happy.
so its not that, smoking is everywhere, or smoking is nowhere (like the laws everyone is pushing for says), its that smoking is in the right places.
and for everyone out there saying, who the hell smokes? let me tell u i used to think that way too, be all against smoking like you guys are. then i tried it and i liked it, and i plan to quit soon, but i would never take it back. and just like you are thinking "God that smoker is so stupid" lots of smokers are thinking " God that non-smoker is so anal, he needs to lighten up and live a little bit and smoke a lil something" an idea that, of course, non smokers cant understand by the fact that they are non smokers. So there are two sides here, dont beat up on the smaller group of non smokers with your conservative laws.
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Far be it from me to disagree, but under your passive-agressive rhetoric I can see the same thing that comes out every time I whittle a smoker's argument down to what they really believe. Your, "lighten up and smoke a little" is just another way of saying, "I know I'm doing something horrible for my body that also negatively affects others, but if I get a few more people to do it, I won't feel so bad about myself." It's typical safety in numbers mentality, I've seen it a thousand times.
And all the talk about compromise, I'm not sure what compromise can be made. Shall we split up the bars, 70% for us and 30% for you? If such a compromise were possible, I think it would have happened by now. Instead, 100% of bars (minus those wonderful cities which already ban it) are filled with near-toxic levels of noxious smoke. So here's a little homework for you next time you're at the bar: ask EVERYONE in the room (especially those who work there) if they smoke, not whether it bothers them, but if they do or not. If there's even one who doesn't, then don't smoke in that room. That's about the only compromise that truly is fair. Since very few smokers are going to do that, I'm afraid non-smokers are left with little choice but to legislate where smoking is not allowed. 50 years ago it used to be customary to ask, "mind if I smoke." That doesn't happen anymore, instead it's become, "what the hell is your problem!" if someone has the guts to speak up and tell a smoker they're rude. Maybe you are one of the small minority of "polite" smokers, but I assure you VERY few people put into practice the values you espouse.
And please stop calling anti-smoking laws "conservative." History has shown that the smoking debate goes past politics. While traditionally the Republican party has been the pro-smokes party, the Democrats have taken their share of dirty tobacco money too. No, these laws are not driven by any particular ideology, they are driven by the desire of the populace to protect their health, the health of their families and the accesibility of public places.