Hi there,
I am a third-year medical student at a great school, but have recently encountered a huge problem, and require advice. After the end of a four-year relationship, my ex boyfriend has posted explicit, "full frontal" photos of me (taken three years ago, even) to a revenge porn site. These photos have now gone viral, and he attached my name and address to these incriminating photographs. Where I reside, there are no laws that allow me to effectively sue him or take legal action, and the sites refuse to take down the non-consensually uploaded photos on the basis of him owning the copyright, and freedom of speech.
I am absolutely devastated. When you search my full name, the links to the pages appear on the third page of google. While the photos were taken years ago in the privacy of what I thought was a trusting relationship (and I had learned since not to take such images), it will make no difference to anyone who sees them. I am utterly embarrassed. I had hoped to go into paediatrics, but now feel as though I will never get a residency position, and patients would not even want to come to me, thanks to this scandal.
I truly feel this man has ruined my career prospects. I was wrong to take those types of photos, but I was foolish at the time and put too much trust in him. Should I forget my aspirations for paediatrics and find a new discipline, or do I no longer have any decent shot at a stable career in medicine altogether?
Like I said, I'm embarrassed, ashamed, and now appear completely unprofessional. I'm not sure how to proceed, and any advice would be much appreciated. 🙁
Thank you all for reading.
I am a third-year medical student at a great school, but have recently encountered a huge problem, and require advice. After the end of a four-year relationship, my ex boyfriend has posted explicit, "full frontal" photos of me (taken three years ago, even) to a revenge porn site. These photos have now gone viral, and he attached my name and address to these incriminating photographs. Where I reside, there are no laws that allow me to effectively sue him or take legal action, and the sites refuse to take down the non-consensually uploaded photos on the basis of him owning the copyright, and freedom of speech.
I am absolutely devastated. When you search my full name, the links to the pages appear on the third page of google. While the photos were taken years ago in the privacy of what I thought was a trusting relationship (and I had learned since not to take such images), it will make no difference to anyone who sees them. I am utterly embarrassed. I had hoped to go into paediatrics, but now feel as though I will never get a residency position, and patients would not even want to come to me, thanks to this scandal.
I truly feel this man has ruined my career prospects. I was wrong to take those types of photos, but I was foolish at the time and put too much trust in him. Should I forget my aspirations for paediatrics and find a new discipline, or do I no longer have any decent shot at a stable career in medicine altogether?
Like I said, I'm embarrassed, ashamed, and now appear completely unprofessional. I'm not sure how to proceed, and any advice would be much appreciated. 🙁
Thank you all for reading.