This was first presented to me at the harvard business school...a way of opening a lecture demonstrating how hard-headed apparently smart people can be in accepting something counter-intuitive. It is indeed better to switch in this situation, and has been proven countless times, even in scientific journals, just google it and you will find countless explanations.
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