The terminology might be what's confusing you. I personally would say that eletrophillic attack as such does not really exist. Electrophillic substitution, like with a carbonyl carbon, or with an addition to a benzene ring, that exists. However, the electrophile is always the thing that is being "attacked". The nucleophile is the thing that is "attacking". So therefore, if you had a reaction with a good nucleophile and a good electrophile, all other things being equal (i.e. no steric hindrance etc), then your nucleophile will probably attack your electrophile.