I have been more or less forced to realize that there are more acceptable paths than what tend to be presented to undergrad psych students. My story is long, and perhaps this isn't the place for most of it. I wanted to be a psychologist when I started college in like 1987. I got off the path (changed majors because I didn't think the field of psychology would ever accept me, didn't get into graduate school in speech pathology, and gave up on education for a number of years). A life crisis brought me back and I decided to try again. I took a fifth year of undergraduate psych classes so that I would have references, and applied to three clinical phd programs. Didn't get any interviews. Worked for another year and applied to one clinical program and one counseling psych phd program. I was surprised the counseling program was a better match for my interests than that school's clinical program. Meanwhile I started a master's program. The time was clicking, and jobs with a B.A. in psych are not all that great. The counseling psych program interviewed me but didn't accept me. This year it's painful to read about everyone applying to doctoral programs, because that's where I wish I were, but my options have been limited and I'm doing what I can. I'm going to just keep going with my master's this year, and maybe apply again to doctoral programs next year, when I will be close enough to finish what I'm in now. It's a step forward from where I was. When I apply again, I'll probably be limited in terms of where I can go (due to my husband's career, which has been the reason I couldn't apply to many programs so far). There will be three universities within range, and I'll apply to clinical, counseling, developmental, and maybe also DSW programs at each of them. Some of these programs have combined options, which really appeal to me. I'll already be working as a therapist by then, and I hope that will be a plus and not a minus for me, but we'll see.