ortho is right next to the functional group present, para is on carbon 4 (directly opposite of the functional group), meta would be on C3 (not right next to the FG present but one over). I always think of the word "OMP". Say you have a Cl functional group on a benzene ring. Right next to the Cl is ortho, right next to ortho is meta, and right next to meta is para. hope that makes sense!