scholes: wow, that was way cool of you, seriously. i DO get offensive, i am sarcastic, and i often bait people for fun. BUT i never mean it to hurt others, unless they're major dicks. and i NEVER take stuff personally here, seriously . so thanks for the kind words.
4th year: totally cool, bro. if you hadn't said anything to qualify your "mean" post i would have just ripped on you or something, but see above (this same post) to understand the context if i ever do rip on anyone.
i used to want to be a doctor when i was younger, but screwing up undergrad kind of changed that for me (i figured it was like high school--no work necessary). so, i did what every guy does who can't make it in the big leagues, and waited tables, then worked for a major automaker in their finance dept answering phones and later running a department (fun for almost a year, then it got boring when i was getting hounded--LITERALLY--to use less staples and color ink (tells you how efficient things were if that's all they could f*ck with me about, lol)), and finally decided, hey, what does everyone do who can't figure out what they want to be when they grow up? i'll go to law school. and, surprise, it IS just like high school--cliques, "cool kids," etc, and hardly any work necessary to stay ahead of the pack. i've learned more working in my med mal firm than i have in 2 (almost 2.5, holy shizzle) years of law school. it's fun, but i'm sure it will get boring. i'm thinking of either going for a MPH in public policy (do they even offer that specialty?) or med school, or raise kids, depending on what my woman ends up doing (she's going into surgery, starting her residency at some yet-to-be-matched location...nervous = me, since i will have to do the bar exam for the state she matches in). my sister, my best friend, his wife, and my woman are all physicians, or within a year of being official docs...having doc friends doesn't make me one, but i ask a lot of questions and am hyperalert when medical topics arise...so i know a lot about a some of what goes on in med schools (DO and MD), though not even a tenth of a percent of what you guys go/went/will go through.
i guess my goal is public policy, politics or legislative action committee work. and there is no fear that i'll stereotype docs--i already have, and meet those who defy the stereotypes regularly, just as i meet those who reaffirm the stereotypes. i like most docs, i definitely respect them, and i use this forum as a way to relax and let of steam (via lame internet arguments) and to better understand your world/my possible future world.
understand one thing about me, though (aside from the fact that i offer lots of unasked-for information to strangers online, lol): even if i switch over to the plaintiff's side of the med mal scene, i will not work cases i don't believe in. i like defense because i feel like i'm helping the side that society thinks of as "bad," but i see just as many legit cases come through and because i'm "young" in terms of experience, i can't pick and choose. either way, i think this business is just a learning tool for me; it will get old and i will move on to something more fulfilling and real. maybe belly dancing...