As DINKs (double income, no kids) we paid down debt and saved a lot. But honestly we've been living paycheck to paycheck since having a child. We max out retirement accounts and have 20-25k emergency savings, and have a bit in taxable brokerage, but after that we spend everything on childcare, diapers, toys, toddler clothes, furniture, 529, life insurance, home improvements, eating out, quality groceries (not organic but not the cheap stuff either) and stuff we don't need. I guess the older we get, the less we care about money.
I recently became obsessed with power tools. I'm not even handy but I like having them. Probably dropped around $2k this year on Ryobi and Ego tools.