@psychgirl95 I wish everyone here could keep it together and not get emotional over things they're passionate about, like you. I have no idea, I have never been diagnosed with anything that would give me extra time (closest I've got is that much of my family/extended family has) so I'm not super familiar with the process. And I'm only talking about things in school.
I did like your analogy about the wheelchair because I was only talking about non-physical things, but what I'm talking about is (I worked at a PT place for a lil so its really amazing to see the transformation) when people come in after getting a total knee replacement entirely wheelchair bound and can't even stretch their leg out on their own, PT's really push those people and are walking not long after (like a bit over a month).
I have multiple family members with pretty bad ADHD (seems like everyone does at this point) just 'grow up' and stop taking their medication and get on with their lives.
Not everyone will get out of a wheelchair in a month and not everyone will be able to stop taking their medication but if that's what they've decided is better for them, you'll never know if they can do it unless they push for it.
So what bothers me is that I don't feel people are being encouraged to try to stop using what could only just be crutches.
In response to the bolded.
I actually respected the point in your OP, that what actually happens to those who need testing accommodation due to ADHD/Dyslexia in the real world, and it has been pointed out to you that the real world != medicine.
But the bolded is just...wrong...on so many levels.
I have ADHD and anxiety problems. My first diagnosis was when I was 8. I tried meds when I was in middle school, but didn't actually stay on any medication consistently until I was in High School and beyond.
I love how my meds make my brain feel. Calm, focused , and I'm not even on the proper dosage ( was less than I should be on).
Why am I not on the right dosage? Side effects. ( TMI alert) Nausea, acid reflux, appetite suppression, intense dry mouth ( think no saliva, I can't swallow) , and brain fog my meds cause me. I'd love to go off them, I'd love not having to worry if my stomach is going to be on fire for the next few hours, I can't work out or eat well, I've lost so much weight. But I just can't go off my meds, my quality of life suffers so much more than those ****ty physical side effects.
I can see what you mean about not needing testing accommodations anymore, but going off medication and " growing up" are
not that same thing . It's not a lack of maturity or will to get over their mental illness , it's needing the medication to live a happier , healthier life. I've tried to go off my meds on numerous occasions, and it always ends in tears over how much I can feel the difference in the my concentration/ panic over little things/ find it difficult to interact socially/sit still/ stop me at any time. Why should people push themselves to go off medication? If it makes them in a better place mentally, why should they go off it? What's the motivation for that? The benefit? ( Most psych drugs don't have side effects like mine so generally there so no benefit like there would be for me)
Should people go off asthma inhalers? Allergy medicine? Pain killers? Caffeine? Why should people go off psych drugs?
Btw, I never needed/ had testing accommodations, I don't need them for my particular strain of ADHD, so long as people aren't talking during an exam, which they obviously aren't.