I agree that buying is not for everyone; however, there are situations where it makes more sense than others. Research the costs and benefits before making the jump.
EPL looks like it is ok, but if you don't use one of their realtors you must pay some fee to them (I haven't found out what that is yet). Drew Daniels was mentioned. In Ohio, Huntington Bank does it (at least they did last year). In Kentucky, Republic Bank is the place I was told to look.
Huntington Bank also operates in NJ and claims to do 0% loan still... just was contacted by them today about it via EPL (which, if I do end up using that lender, I must pay 1% referral fee to EPL... so between the 1% to them and the 1% the lender wants in leui of PMI you essentially give 2% down payment in these additional fees) They also claim no PMI, and offered as competitive rate as I have been getting for FHA loans for the 5/1 ARM (the 30yr Fixed rate was more than what I have been quoted, but basically they stated most residents move in 4 years so take advantage of the lower rate with ARM... I am looking to be there 7 years so those final 2 years are going to be a gamble if I take this offer). He also gives a 50% D to I ratio, close in June... it all seems too good be actually be true, so I have my reservations
Physicianloans.com referred me to a guy at JP Morgan who pre-approved me for an FHA loan with a 44% D to I ratio, but has been dragging his feet on letting me know if I can close before I begin working (in order to A) move before I start and B) qualify for the 8K tax credit you need to be under contract by April 30 and closed by June 30).
My realtor referred me to her in office loan specialist who also pre-approved me for an FHA loan with a 50% D to I, and has stated I can close in June... he seems to be the most reliable to date, and has the added advantage of working with my realtor which can make the process smoother
Lendingtree.com also connected me with another lender in NJ who pre-approved me for an FHA loan and said he can push the D to I up to 55%, close before I begin working... again, sounds great and wonderful, but if it sounds too good to be true...
I will be here for 7 years (GS 5 yrs + 2 yrs spent in the lab) so buying makes a bit more sense for me, but I still am not going to force it if I don't find what I am looking for. Going for a condo/townhouse does cover some of the hassle associated with owning a home, but takes away some of the freedoms of owning as well.