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Hello everyone! Most of you know me, any new people may not. I have been really busy so somewhat absent past few months.
I need some advice, I have a huge decision to make that I still cannot make and this website is the only one I know of with people that will understand.
Here is the situation:
In November we (hubby, me, daughter) are leaving the military and moving back to the U.S. We currently live in Germany. I will have a bachelor degree completed at this time, but I have limited availability of face to face science courses at this post so I am not able to complete my chemistry and physics prereqs. The plan is that when we move back to the U.S I will take those classes at some school in the states along with biochemistry since it is recommended. I don't care if it is science classes ala carte or a formal post bacc program, but I don't need to do all of the prereqs so most likely it will be ala carte.
This is where the decision comes into play. It is 100% up to me what state we move to. I originally decided to go to Ohio , but that has now changed due to a couple reasons. The only family we have is my mother, but she just moved to an area that has a very high unemployment rating. We can't take the risk of moving to an area with very high unemployment ratings so we will be moving to a state where we don't know anyone, we will have zero backups.
I need to decide what state we are moving to. This state needs to meet some criteria which I will list below
So this decision is about medical school, but it also encompasses the family and I know some of you on this forum have families to take care of so you can understand that balance between becoming a doctor and family life.
If anyone has any suggestions or any type of advice that is related to this I would greatly appreciate it because I need to make this decision ASAP so he can start job searching online, I can find a specific city and start looking at rental apts/houses for us and get anything in line for the schooling.
Thank you in advance for any advice on this because no one else really understands the whole "becoming a doctor" journey and the stress associated with that. I want to make the best decision for my family and for my goal of medical school.
I need some advice, I have a huge decision to make that I still cannot make and this website is the only one I know of with people that will understand.
Here is the situation:
In November we (hubby, me, daughter) are leaving the military and moving back to the U.S. We currently live in Germany. I will have a bachelor degree completed at this time, but I have limited availability of face to face science courses at this post so I am not able to complete my chemistry and physics prereqs. The plan is that when we move back to the U.S I will take those classes at some school in the states along with biochemistry since it is recommended. I don't care if it is science classes ala carte or a formal post bacc program, but I don't need to do all of the prereqs so most likely it will be ala carte.
This is where the decision comes into play. It is 100% up to me what state we move to. I originally decided to go to Ohio , but that has now changed due to a couple reasons. The only family we have is my mother, but she just moved to an area that has a very high unemployment rating. We can't take the risk of moving to an area with very high unemployment ratings so we will be moving to a state where we don't know anyone, we will have zero backups.
I need to decide what state we are moving to. This state needs to meet some criteria which I will list below
- decent unemployment rate (http://www.bls.gov/web/laus/laumstrk.htm) that link has the unemployment rate of states, any state from #1-25 is an option.
- cost of living is not outrageous
- at least 1 medical school in that state (preferably more)
- crime rate is not high (I have a 5 year old daughter to think about)
- the last criteria is more of a preference, but not a requirement...I would prefer to finish my prereqs at a school that operates on a quarter system instead of semester because I can get classes knocked out faster. I do well when I am challenged and things are fast paced so that works good for me.
So this decision is about medical school, but it also encompasses the family and I know some of you on this forum have families to take care of so you can understand that balance between becoming a doctor and family life.
If anyone has any suggestions or any type of advice that is related to this I would greatly appreciate it because I need to make this decision ASAP so he can start job searching online, I can find a specific city and start looking at rental apts/houses for us and get anything in line for the schooling.
Thank you in advance for any advice on this because no one else really understands the whole "becoming a doctor" journey and the stress associated with that. I want to make the best decision for my family and for my goal of medical school.