OK, guys- let's take it down a notch here. Any comments that aren't related to the OP's questions are probably not helpful to him/her. A few things for everyone to remember:
1. This board- as with most internet forums- is a good example of caveat emptor in all its glory. We can only hope that people are honest about their status regarding where they are in their schooling and professional development. Since we can't prove any of it, everything here needs to be taken with a very large grain of salt. If you spend time reading the forums, you will get your own sense of whose advice you can trust and whose you can pass over, whose style you like and whose you don't.
2. It is in all of our own self-interest to post in a professional manner on here. We are a lot less anonymous than we'd like to be based on clues that we post here, there, and everywhere. I don't know whether any psych, SW, or counseling programs check these boards, but I am well aware of several medical schools' admissions offices that read the med forums regularly. Think before you post as to whether you would want your potential programs to see every post that you make.
3. It's the INTERNET, people. Probably a better use of your time to expend emotions toward people/situations that are part of your "real life", rather than a bunch of people you'll never meet.
4. It is a good rule of thumb to post only when you are familiar with the topic. This is why I rarely-to-never respond to posts regarding MA/psychology programs, or PhD/PsyD admissions.
All that said, jiji makes a good general point regarding being aware of our emotions and how we express them in order to help our clients work on that aspect of their own lives when it's a therapeutic issue. Having spent hours upon hours working with patients with emotional dysregulation issues, I can't tell you the number of conversations I've had surrounding the question of whether "most persons, given that particular situation, might have a similar response to what you [the client] had". If we as clinicians are not able to distinguish this, we are ineffective at best- and damaging at worst- to our patients. That is not to say that we do not or should not have emotions, but that we need to be aware of them and how they impact others (and ourselves).
And now, back to your regularly scheduled thread...