This is in resopnse to a comment that was made in the Canadian forum.
konverse said:
monette
i apologize in advance for the harshness of this post but.
No need to apologize. I posted on a public forum because that is generally a good way to get a varied and representative sample of peoples opinions. I asked for peoples feedback and ALL feedback is in fact appreciated. So thank you for providing yours.
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konverse said:
you NEED to start thinking straight. it is painfully, painfully obvious that you have a serious issue reconciling your ego here.
Alright, Ive already addressed this but I will again. You seem to imply that I am an egomaniac. Really that couldnt be any farther from the truth. You want to attribute my present (and perhaps pitiable) situation to my being foolish, ill-advised, misguided, naïve, unrealistic, or any combination of the aforementioned, by all means, do so. But please refrain from calling me arrogant. I dont know why it bothers me *this* much that a bunch of anonymous pre-meds that I will never meet (and who will never identify me in the rare event that I do meet with them) would think that Im arrogant, but it does, and I take it pretty seriously. So please dont. OK, now that thats out of my system
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konverse said:
and this makes absolutely no sense. you're a premed. you want to be a doctor and NOW YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY.
please re-consider what this word means. opportunity. a real and tangible one. see the problem with university kids is that they believe that grades etc is really what matters. and to some extent it is, but i firmly believe it is what YOU DO and how you do it that can count for more.
True. I have an opportunity. And I have no intention of throwing it away. But with each opportunity comes a choice, the making of which Im wrestling with right now. But man, people really dont like this idea of deferring, eh?
konverse said:
so you think you're too good for this canadian school? ok, i can understand that, I'm too good to wear Levi's jeans.
BUT LET ME PUT IT THIS WAY.
this school is giving you A PAIR OF JEANS to wear. i want to commend you for having high personal and professional ambitions of wanting to reach and aim higher towards the better institutions etc (and in this analogy say Diesel, or Paper Denim).
Alright, I never said I was too good for this school. In fact, my thinking that I would not get in should convince you that I actually believed the contrary to be true. And yes, I realize that would make it seem ironic that I would want to defer. But Ive already given my reasons again, briefly: limited opportunities in areas of interest, poor fit, bad vibes on interview day. Also, I have significantly improved my application during this past year and feel that I should give it another shot since this school is not my dream school and I have other plans for the upcoming year which would further prepare me for the gruels of medical school. And really, the reason Ill only go to a top 15 is because those are the only schools that I will consider giving up my Canadian acceptance for. Thats how HIGHLY I think of the school. Cool?
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And dude, I appreciate the analogy. But seriously, Levis jeans? The fashion police is going to have a field day once they catch you and Im afraid I feel fashionably, heck even morally, obligated to report you. It is for your own good, I promise. Do not compare this school, or ANY school, no matter how craptacular, to Levis because the crappiness of Levis jeans is in a craptitude err latitude all their own. Yes, that is how crappy they are. *In a valley girl voice* They are like so ten years ago
*Flips hair, rolls eyes*
🙄 The fashionista in me is most seriously displeased and is shaking her head in supreme disappointment. Order a copy of In Style and have it shipped Federal Express. Nothing else will do. Except if youre a guy? Then, (and I mean this in the best way possible) get a female and/or metrosexual shopping buddy. A-SAP.
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konverse said:
life isn't linear. neither is success. IF YOU WANT TO GET TO THE TOP, PUT YOUR HEAD DOWN AND GET THERE.
Again, my head is down. But you speak the truth. Gems indeed.
konverse said:
but please don't be foolish by defering a year to give it another shot. YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE WORLD WILL BRING tomorrow.
your priorities/wishes/hopes/desires could change in a BLINK OF AN EYE and you will be left crying on the street.
Could you please elaborate? What is it that could go so awfully wrong besides the fact that I may very well not get in elsewhere and end up going to the same school only a year later?
konverse said:
re-writing the MCAT and applying etc IS BEHIND YOU NOW. put this positive energy you have bubbling in you towards a running start in med school.
please be smart and start med school in canada come august. canadian medical education is GOOD. and affordable. you will meet the top 15% of all applicants in the country in that entering class. these are FACTS.
also you may want to keep in mind that MED SCHOOL DOES NOT DEFINE YOU.
WHAT DEFINES YOU IS THAT YOU WANT TO BE THE BEST MED STUDENT OUT THERE.
and you will work hard towards it. because that is what you want. you will make it.
this is called PASSION, monette. do you have it in you?
Again, words to live by. And passion you ask? Oh darling, it guides my every move. It defines my every decision. It resonates with my every action. It is echoed in my every word. I speak it. I act it. I live it. Always. With passion.
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Passionately,
Monette
P.S. I still cant believe that not a single deferrer exists on these boards. I am patiently awaiting your response. Oh and if any SDN adcomm members come across this, *cough*
LizzyM/adcomm *cough* your insight would be greatly appreciated.
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