Yes it is time consuming because I put thought into every thing I say, even on this forum. What is the point in having a generic thank-you-note?
And it is expensive because I had to buy nice thank you cards which cost $4.99 + tax at CVS. Then there are $0.37 stamps on each envelope. Put it all together and it is an entire meal to me. I have to watch what I spend since I am living on my own and have to think about food and rent.
If we are lucky, they probably go as far as opening the envelope, skimming the card, and throwing it in our file. I doubt there is even a check off box to say that they received a thank-you-note. What do you think?