My question is specific to neuropsych postdocs:
Let's say you have 3 programs - 1 and 2 are match (you rank them 1 & 2) and the 3rd is non-match.
My understanding is that match programs can say something along the lines of: 1) If you rank us number 1, you will match here (you're their #1); 2) If you rank us number 1, it is highly likely you will match here (you're a top candidate, just not #1), or 3) if you rank us number 1, it is unlikely you will match here (not a top candidate).
Program 3 gives you an offer, so you contact Program 1. They essentially indicate that you may match there, but are not their number 1.
Can you then contact Program 2 to see where you stand or do you have to make a decision between taking Program 3's offer or chancing the match?
I know you're not supposed to contact all of your programs to see where you stand, but if you know that you would prefer either of the match programs over the non-match and Program 1 doesn't guarantee your match, can you then query Program 2 (to potentially see if you should change your rank of them to #1)?
Thanks!