It honestly sounds exactly the same when I worked at the ER department. I know you're trying to help out but to my understanding I will encounter dinguses anywhere regardless where I work. But to be honest I would be more understanding toward pet owners I just have more affinity towards animals than human
So this is why we're telling you that you need to shadow. I can't tell you how many times I've looked at a pet owner and wondered if they were even from this planet, let alone a functioning adult. Is it possible to understand why an owner would buy lifesaving medication and not use it
at all, or pay for a $6,000 surgery only to refuse to make the dog wear an E-collar (The owner called the day after we sent it home to let us know that it's intestine was coming through the body wall because the dog had chewed its incision so furiously)? I could go on.
In an ER, if a person is going to do something stupid or dangerous, that's on them. In the vet world, you are treating animals that solely depend on their person. If their person is going to be an dingus, that pet will suffer and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it.
And then there's the people that would do anything for their beloved animals, if only they could afford it.
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So this is why we're telling you that you need to shadow. I can't tell you how many times I've looked at a pet owner and wondered if they were even from this planet, let alone a functioning adult. Is it possible to understand why an owner would buy lifesaving medication and not use it at all, or pay for a $6,000 surgery only to refuse to make the dog wear an E-collar (The owner called the day after we sent it home to let us know that it's intestine was coming through the body wall because the dog had chewed its incision so furiously)? I could go on.
In an ER, if a person is going to do something stupid or dangerous, that's on them. In the vet world, you are treating animals that solely depend on their person. If their person is going to be an dingus, that pet will suffer and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it.
And then there's the people that would do anything for their beloved animals, if only they could afford it.
Wait, why is prissy allowed to swear and I'm not?! How do I take my training wheels off?