Ok, let's try and get back on topic, which is helping this young soul figure out how to approach O-Chem.
O-Chem is a hard class, it requires extreme attention to detail and persistent studying.
That said, it is possible to do well in O-Chem, even if you're not a total science geek. I was a humanities major and I still did ok in this class.
First, don't take the semesters at the same time. You've got to do one before you do two. Initially, it is all memorization, of terminology and spatial relationships. If your school does not supply them, purchase a structural model kit. It will allow you to visualize the molecules in 3-D, this becomes important when trying to grasp the idea of isomerization. The first half of first semester is all memorization. Do it, go to class, pay attention. Duh. The second half of the first semester, and all of second semester, is learning reactions. Orgo is like a game, which gets exceedingly more complex. It starts out with ten rules, then twenty, then thirty, with 30 more subset rules to the first ten, etc. So if you didn't learn the first ten rules, you're screwed, but if you did, you're golden. Just stay on top of the class. I recomend making reaction flash cards, and keeping them organized. Keep building on these.
Basically, orgo is about tracing electron flow. Seriously, it's that simple. Know that every reaction is either oxidation or reduction.
OIL RIG
Oxidation involves loss (of electrons), Reduction involves gain (of electrons).
Now go out and learn the 250 ways to oxidize or reduce organic molecules. Just pay attention.