Are you a year away from this process? I ask because if you read these forums, your questions seems a bit naive, and I think nobody is replying because this is really not a very important question in the scheme of things, at least not in psychiatry where truly malignant programs are almost non-existent, and fabulous lifestyle programs are fairly limited, too, but a few do get bandied about here on SDN. Also, in general, the more prestige = the more work, and the real problem is that being hung up on prestige is a dumb thing to care about. Eliminate the worry about prestige and focus on what really matters.
Look at programs in locations that suit you for family, significant others, etc. There really are not that many programs with truly favorable lifestyles, but there are many, many programs with perfectly acceptable lifestyles and workloads - your medicine months may suck, but after that, fairly smooth sailing.
Frankly, I am finding many more similarities between programs than differences, at least in terms of workload / lifestyle / hours. The more important decision, to me at least, is one of location - where do I want to live for the next 4 years, and possibly after that? And all that goes into that decision (family in tow?, significant other?, living near parents or other family, climate, transportation issues, outdoorsy vs big city, region of the country, ocean vs mountains...these are your own criteria that no one else can help you with, and worrying about prestige is a big waste of time for 98 percent of applicants).
Are you in the other 2 percent? Based on your question, not likely, because those folks aren't worried about lifestyle - they are so focused on prestige that they can't see anything else, and I am avoiding them and the programs that attract them like the plague.
Edit: I am not changing my post, but further down the thread the OP has toned down his request for "prestige" programs with a good lifestyle, a somewhat oxymoronic request that led to what I wrote here.