That's a little bit of a fallacy (pun intended). A lot of the misunderstanding/stigma about psychoanalysis I would compare to the misunderstanding/stigma over psychiatry by those in other medical specialties. It's based on limited information from prior mentors who themselves only had a limited experience as a medical student.
Another comparison might be presuming that catholicism represents every branch of christianity. It obviously doesn't, but those that never looked at the later iterations miss a lot of the picture. I myself am Hindu 😀
Strangeglove your description is moreso appropriate for ego-psychology, the original Freudian approach that it turns out Freud himself didn't even really follow (based on many writings that his actual patients wrote about his style). Freud actually brought his dog in his office with him, and would have it sit in the room during his analytic sessions.
Later versions, aka "contemporary psychoanalysis," which're valuable for broader groups of individuals include self-psychology and relational/intersubjectivity. I'm early in my own analytic training, but I've been a bit astounded. There's a crapload (again, pun intended) of diversity in the theories and approaches/techniques.