In retrospect, being an independent (disadvantaged?) applicant helps also. It certianly helped me, though my stats were not borderline. I may be an ORM, but I grew up in poverty in the city. I also worked for years before and during undergrad and took out tons of loans to support myself at my "no-name state school". I have a GED, since my high school was so bad, and I left home at the age of 16, because my parents couldn't support me.
So, does being a disadvantaged applicant get you an advantage? I know it does. Does being a URM without a disadvantage also get you one? I'm not sure.
To put things back into perspective, I thought your application was very successful for you to have gotten into programs like UCSD, Albert Einstein, and others. I was searching for ways to explain that, as to not get up the hopes of applicants who did not have these sorts of things on their applications, but had similar GPA, MCAT, Research, and ECs. I'm certain now that it was more than just being a URM in your case, and I apologize for the way I probably sounded to you and everyone. I still believe that just being a URM helps your application, but still some URMs (and ORMs) like yourself have had to overcome significant adversity, and for that they deserve special consideration.
PS: I love to hijack threads
Still, I'd rather not make this into a standalone debate. We'd probably pull in all the AA vs no AA arguers from around SDN and end up with something large and viscious...