I'm curious as to how many fellowship trained Pain Medicine physicians actually prescribe medications, or if what we are seeing in my area is the norm? Basically, referral to a "Pain Management" physician is futile, as unless the patient is wanting a procedure, they are refused any treatment, or denied. We have a significant population on higher doses of chronic narcs that many of us (PCP's) simply are not comfortable managing. These are almost always "inherited" patients....meaning, the PCP looking for help in management did not create the "problem".
a few thoughts on your situation
1- you said you live in a rural area. Do you have academic medical center within 2 hours of you? If so and your clinic is overwhelmed, then its fine to send them to the university pain clinic. If not available, well thats the downside of living in BFE.
2-there are bad docs of every stripe in every setting, and you may just have bad pain docs near you. It is certainly looked down on in the pain world to just be a needle jockey and only see patients for procedures, however just seeing patients for med management is not what any pain doc wants to do either. I would call up pain docs within 90 minutes of you and ask if they will see patients that need both med managment and procedures, with the understanding that the pain doc will completely take over those patients. You likely have more patients that need procedures than you think. It's not the patient that should decide if they need a procedure, its you or the pain physician. For starters any patient with radiculopathy or any patient over 50 who says they need opioids for axial-only back pain, and has MRI findings, should be evaluated for procedures to reduce back pain. Send those patients to the pain physicians for both procedures and med management. (however, be aware that many pain physicians won't see anyone on medicaid, as their pain is generally in their head only)
As for help with the other patients, here is pain physician 101
1- You need to start urine testing patients, more of them are selling their drugs or taking illegal ones than you realize. Be sure you send out the urine to the lab, as in office tests are not reliable. It will simplify your life because if the patient is taking illegal drugs then you don't write any more scripts because you don't know if they'll use the last script to OD. If the urine is negative for what they're supposed to be taking, then no more scripts as they don't need a taper as they aren't taking the med anyway, but selling it.
2-no patient can be one more than one mind altering substance, i.e. they can't take benzos or soma or opioids together, as combinations of these three increase risk of OD, car accidents, etc. You can wean the soma quickly, I have them just take it nightly for a week then stop. No patient in the 21st century should take benzos daily. You might allow three 0.5mg xanax in a month for true anxiety attacks, but no more. If they say they have daily anxiety this is best treated with SSRIs or other meds, not daily benzos. If they continue to complain about anxiety, send to psych to manage it without benzos, and be sure that psych knows they can't use them.
3-general rule of thumb is to wean opioids or benzos 10% per week. I generally do one of these at a time, as simultaneously weaning both is hard. However, the 8-12% (10%) wean per week is common and if you patients bitch that it's too much, you know that it isn't. You should be able to wean someone completely off opioids within 2-3 months, quicker for a motivated patient.
4-As others have stated, if you have patients over 50 years old that are working or over 65 years with moderate-severe OA of a joint, or spine, then you may consider writing chronic modest opioid script for them, but no more than Norco 10mg TID , and usually just Norco 5mg BID to TID is enough.
5-keep in mind that if they don't meet that moderate-severe joint/spine degeneration criteria, they don't really require opioids, even if they think they do. Also unless medically contraindicated, anyone with pain in a peripheral joint severe enough to require opioids, should see ortho to get a joint replacement. If they aren't willing to get the joint replacement, then they don't really need opioids.
This is different for the spine of course as I'm sure you know that lumbar fusions are a bad idea 95% of the time.