i have sat out of school for a year now for various reasons post-divorce. i really want to get back in but state of tn said that my parents made too much (it is 24 here before you can claim independence unless you can prove you have lived on your own for a year-could not do). now that i am 24 they said that i made too mcuh last year to qualify for aid (i worked 2 jobs to make 24000--70 hour work weeks!). needless to say, i can no longer delay payments (been a year). my loans totalled $3000 at 3 and 4 % each. i send them $45 month. they at first kept sending me bills for $100 a month. NO WAY i can pay that. i sent 2-3 letters(stating i would send a minimum $45/month). then i startd receiving threatening letters from them and their collection agency. now the letters have stopped for 2 months now (i have only had to be paying them since july-started in june). they always cash my checks. i have tried calling alot but each time after 30 minutes have given up. i was told they will not garnish your wages if you pay then something. this is frustrating. i assume everything is ok b/c they stopped calling. if i were to pay them $100 a month i would have $150 a month for my meds, food, gas, etc! any ideas, help, similar problems. btw, this was with sallie mae.