Stay calm, be polite, and explain that you never wanted the dog surrendered and would take him/her back if they were still there.
I imagine that this is specifically why a non-disclosure policy would be in place..
It's not at all fair to those who adopted the pet for the ex-owner to call them up or show up at their door and say "hey that's my dog can i have him back now?"
It's an unfortunate situation, but when you leave a pet with people who don't want a pet or are unreliable as owners, you don't have veto power over whether the dog gets sent away to the spca..
The dog is living in your parent's house while you're away for months at a time.. I presume that in terms of the law your parents would then be considered the "owners" of the dog, no?
unless it's some extreme circumstance like if the dog was stolen or lost and was being searched for and then happened to end up at the spca and get adopted.. Then I can certainly see the spca lifting a non-disclosure policy..
But they probably wouldn't tell you what happened to your dog because it's basically a lose-lose..
You tell someone "sorry we put down your dog" and they are crushed in the best case scenario or raging mad and filing lawsuits in the worst case scenario..
Or alternatively you tell somebody their pet was adopted.. Then
perhaps the ex-owner takes it well and lets it go and rests knowing the dog has ahome.. but in most cases like the OP's, i presume they want to know about the dog because they still feel that the dog is their own and they want to at least try to garner the adopter's sympathy..
also, minnerbille. i dont get what was so awful about mohorsegirl's statement.. ? sure, the specifics definitely vary by location.. but whats wrong with stating the obvious (that some breeds of dog are in much higher demand than others)?
You act like what she said was so offensive..
It may not be accurate nation-wide, and she may not have numbers to back it up.. but why do you act like she's so horrible for saying sucha thing?