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DOJDEE said:all you do is shine the light of God.
ouch! get that light out of my eyes a**hole!

DOJDEE said:all you do is shine the light of God.
velocypedalist said:ouch! get that light out of my eyes a**hole!![]()
G0S2 said:Interesting essay in the NEJM:
Volume 350:1176-1178
March 18, 2004
Number 12
God at the Bedside
Jerome Groopman, M.D.
mercaptovizadeh said:A second point, why is everyone so offended by being told about another religion? I for one, would have no problem if a Muslim, Jew, Hindu, Mormon, etc. explained to me his faith and why he believes it, even at my deathbed. I might go over why I do NOT believe that, or I might actually get convinced into believing (however, that is VERY unlikely). But I would never be offended, because there really is nothing offended about. I am confident enough in my faith, that there is no reason to worry or fear being told about another.
DOJDEE said:here is a link to the article incase you dont have a paying account with the nejm...
http://www.satevepost.org/issues/2004/0708/printer_04-0708-godatbedside.shtml
jazger said:I also have no problem learning about or discussing religion. What offends me is when people assume you are of a certain faith. I was sick at work (a sandwich shop) a few years ago and this customer asked me if I was feeling bad. When I said yes, he grabs my hand and says "Let us pray. Lord Jesus, please heal this sister...etc." I was like WTF?!? Completely inappropriate. And it would be even more so coming from a doctor.
W222 said:Frankly, some people are not getting my arguement. RELIGION ie, I am a Christian doctor so I am going to stress the Christian world view to my patients, even though I practice in an area that represents a number of religions. THAT IS FRANKLY WRONG, BOTH LEGALY AND ETHICALLY. Atleast according to all my med school professors it is wrong. Now, discussing meaning of life and a person's role and search for meaning is all well within the bounds of good practice. You overstep your role when you preach to patients, YOU WILL LOSE PATIENTS DOING THIS AND POSSIBLY OPEN YOURSELF UP TO A WHOLE WORLD OF TROUBLE.
Now, you personally may not believe in abortion. BUT preventing a patient from getting an abortion by not refering one is wrong. Frankly, its disturbing that people would do this and completely unethical. You can tell the patient that you think they should consider other options but refusing to refer one is also dangerous. SAY FOR INSTANCE: you have patient that has a heart condition which, if she carries this child to term, puts her life at serious risk and the chance of death is extremely high. Well, if you refuse you have essentially endangered this person's life and are legally open to malpractice suits in the event of her death. This is the truth, like it or not.
W222 said:WOW, sounds like some of you are pretty backwards and it scares me. FRANKLY, discouraging a patient who may die without an abortion from not getting the medical care they need is completely negligent. If you say "Oh, the bady and you will be fine." and she dies, you will be in court within days following her death. Aside from the fear of litigation, its just wrong to deny medical treatment even if you dont agree with said treatment. For instance, chemo to someone who has essentially no chance of survival. If they want it, you must do it.
SIDE NOTE: the recently elected Republican Senator from Oklahoma is an OB/GYN. He advocates the death penalty for abortions, even in the case of rape which he see as "a convenient abortion" - that is appalling. If you have been raped and dont want the child, why should you be forced to live with that. People say, ohh just give it up for adoption. One problem with that is the healing for the rape victum only starts 9 months to a year after she is raped, rather than immediatly. ALSO- this Doc/Senator has performed two abortions himself in medical emergencies. FIGURE THAT ONE OUT.
velocypedalist said:you are legally required to refer her to another physician if you refuse to preform the procedure
Because I live in America, I've heard of Jesus, you're not telling me anything new here...you're just harrassing me. Is it so hard to believe that I have given the matter a great deal of thought and made a different decision from you? You have a personal relationship with God? that's fantastic! But if its so damn personal why do you feel the need to make it so public?
ElKapitan said:I suppose when someone is dying, it is rather selfish and arrogant to tell them about YOUR views on religion. If they are looking for some comfort in their last moments, if they are asking you for comfort, then yes talking about your views could be warranted. However, to assume, without regard to their feelings or beliefs, that your patient needs your consul on issues of faith is asinine.
As for being told about another religion, I don't think people are offended by this. People are offended when they are told they are sinning because of the way they live (sex before marriage, being gay). People get offended when they are told they will go to hell if they don't find Jesus. People get offended when there is an air of condescesion from a preacher. Overall, It would be the prosecutory nature of christian dogma that is rather offensive. Ironically, this type of mindset would certainly upset the true Jesus.
W222 said:DOJDEE The classic arguement against abortion is that "the rape statistics are so low, its doesn't even matter." Ahh, considering rape is one of the most un-reported crimes in the US, how can you accurately point to a statistic on rape and abortion? The numbers are more likely to be much higher becuase women would rather not report a rape and just get an abortion. THINK OF THAT ONE.
ALSO, if you outlaw abortion under any circumstance you are basically punishing women who were raped and damning those who need one for medical reasons. If a woman with other medical issues develops pre-aclampsia during her pregnancy and it cannot be controlled then that woman has a high risk of dying. Aborting the child is the only option, viability is roughly 22 weeks and C-section is not an option prior to that. Your arguemtn is stuck in the dark ages of medicine.
Albert Einstein said:I don't understand how Cat's Meow hasn't been banned yet, considering others have been banned for being much less obvious baiters.
Cat's Meow is as Jewish as Jerry Falwell. He plays on stereotypes which many love to believe, so it's easy to get caught up on what this fool has to say.
The best analogy I can think of is if some non-Arab takes the name "Mohammed Al-Jafari" and proceeds to write posts like, "Allah! Medical school is so hard I feel like blowing it up!" Of course, all the clever folks will think to themselves, "Typical Arab." and not even think twice that maybe.. just maybe, someone with too much spare time on their hands is playing a joke.
Stop being so feeble-minded that you fall for this idiot's posts.
W222 said:Frankly, some people are not getting my arguement. RELIGION ie, I am a Christian doctor so I am going to stress the Christian world view to my patients, even though I practice in an area that represents a number of religions. THAT IS FRANKLY WRONG, BOTH LEGALY AND ETHICALLY. Atleast according to all my med school professors it is wrong. Now, discussing meaning of life and a person's role and search for meaning is all well within the bounds of good practice. You overstep your role when you preach to patients, YOU WILL LOSE PATIENTS DOING THIS AND POSSIBLY OPEN YOURSELF UP TO A WHOLE WORLD OF TROUBLE.
Now, you personally may not believe in abortion. BUT preventing a patient from getting an abortion by not refering one is wrong. Frankly, its disturbing that people would do this and completely unethical. You can tell the patient that you think they should consider other options but refusing to refer one is also dangerous. SAY FOR INSTANCE: you have patient that has a heart condition which, if she carries this child to term, puts her life at serious risk and the chance of death is extremely high. Well, if you refuse you have essentially endangered this person's life and are legally open to malpractice suits in the event of her death. This is the truth, like it or not.
mercaptovizadeh said:That's as may be. I would rather go to jail than kill someone. The point is, it's NOT personal. And it doesn't have to be. I don't FORCE anything on anyone, I simply tell those who are willing to listen, and if they believe, all the better. What's so wrong with that?
W222 said:I POSTED THIS BEFORE AND IT IS FOR BOTH DOJDEE AND mercaptovizadeh The classic arguement against abortion is that "the rape statistics are so low, its doesn't even matter." Ahh, considering rape is one of the most un-reported crimes in the US, how can you accurately point to a statistic on rape and abortion? The numbers are more likely to be much higher becuase women would rather not report a rape and just get an abortion. THINK OF THAT ONE.
FRANKLY mercaptovizadeh, if you tell a woman that abortion is not necessary which is your fabricated opinion based on your beliefs then you are responsible if she dies. The facts that she needs an abortion to save her lives CANNOT be argued with your beliefs that she doesn't need one and she should not "kill" her child. More than likely you will be brought into court and an expert physician will bring loads of evidence saying that she should have had the procudeu and then you will be held liable, in reality you are liable both morally and legally. You should have sent her somewhere else or to someone else if she needed it. Abortions are needed in medical circumstances to save a woman's life, you cant argue this. It is an opinion that says her life is not relavent and the child should be saved.
W222 said:DOJDEE You are so off its rediculous. There is no way that you can say to a patient, I am Christian and your beliefs are wrong. No -fing way. That is unethical, because as they will HOPEFULLY TEACH YOU, respect for patient autonomy is the most important facet of the doctor patient relationship. THEREFORE, if you preach to a patient you are wrong because you are not respecting their helds beliefs.
W222 said:DOJDEE You are so off its rediculous. There is no way that you can say to a patient, I am Christian and your beliefs are wrong. No -fing way. That is unethical, because as they will HOPEFULLY TEACH YOU, respect for patient autonomy is the most important facet of the doctor patient relationship. THEREFORE, if you preach to a patient you are wrong because you are not respecting their helds beliefs.
La Miraflorina said:For those who are now about to disagree with me, I believe I know what you are thinking. Insurance brokers, in no way, share the same level of intimacy with their clients as doctors do with their patients; that because the nature of our job requires us to see some patients reach the end of their lives, our relationships with our patients are intrinsically more intimate and humanistic. I totally agree. But again, why on Earth does that mean that we should force OUR views on our patients? It's as if you SDNers, who are ranting about preaching your beliefs to a dying patient, are ABUSING that intimate doctor-patient relationship in order to satisfy some personal desire or whim. However "right" you think you are, it simply is not ethical to impose that on ANY patient at ANY time. And that goes for the issue of abortions as well...
W222 said:By Stating Your Beliefs You Are Imposing On The Patient, Ie Preaching. This Is Un-ethical Because It Violates Patient Autonomy Which Is The Founding Principle Of The Doc-patient Relationship.
mercaptovizadeh said:Who said anything about FORCING anybody to hear or DO anything? I said, I think it is OK to broach the topic, if they are not receptive, there is nothing more you can do. If they seem interested, then it should be OK to tell them more.
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La Miraflorina said:Let me ask you this: What would be your personal motivation or reason for wanting to "broach the topic" with a patient?
W222 said:Broaching the topic of Christianity to a patient without a founding basis is wrong. Say, you have a new patient, : "Hey, Mrs Jones have you found Jesus?" That is so wrong. You are trying to recruite and bring people into your faith through your practice. That is against what medicine in this country is founded on, respect for patients. You could have your license revoked for such behavior if its brought to the attention of the medical board, THIS IS THE TRUTH - BELIEVE IT OR NOT.
W222 said:Using Your Medical Practice As A Pulpit Is Wrong. You Are Not There To Convert People, You Are There To Heal Them. Not Heal Their Souls As You See Fit.
W222 said:RELIGION HAS NO PLACE IN A PHYSICIAN'S MEDICAL PRACTICE. Frankly it is completely un-ethical to bring up religion with a patient and discuss your own beliefs, even if you share similar beliefs. THAT BEING SAID, it is okay to talk about a person's spiritual beliefs and offer someone they can talk to, ie a priest giving last rights ect. Religion = organized group of people who share the same beliefs and practice in a community. SPIRITUAL BELIEFS = personal feelings about something deeper than themselves and about their personal faith. So if you are Christian and preach to your patients, you are essentially disrespecting any of their personal beliefs and ALSO you open yourself up to lawsuit. If you ask a person about their beliefs and the role it has in their life then that is respecting their beliefs and encouraging their feelings. Again, preaching has no place in medicine and religion has no place in medicine.
DOJDEE said:i agree with that doc and pharmdoc... it is common for patients to go to other docs for second opinions on things, so why not with these guys?? give me a break... i will not refer anyone to an abortion clinic EVER. the ONLY way that i would ever condone such a thing is if the baby is ALREADY dead and is threatening the life of the mother. that is it. dont you remember??? - "first do no harm"... patients rights??? bull****. you would at the same time have to convince me that it is the patient's right to kill themselves... to me, this is the same thing... religion or not, you are killing something - you are FIRST causing harm instead of first causing NO harm...
ElKapitan said:I suppose when someone is dying, it is rather selfish and arrogant to tell them about YOUR views on religion. If they are looking for some comfort in their last moments, if they are asking you for comfort, then yes talking about your views could be warranted. However, to assume, without regard to their feelings or beliefs, that your patient needs your consul on issues of faith is asinine.
As for being told about another religion, I don't think people are offended by this. People are offended when they are told they are sinning because of the way they live (sex before marriage, being gay). People get offended when they are told they will go to hell if they don't find Jesus. People get offended when there is an air of condescesion from a preacher. Overall, It would be the prosecutory nature of christian dogma that is rather offensive. Ironically, this type of mindset would certainly upset the true Jesus.
mercaptovizadeh said:I certainly wouldn't do it that way - that would be stupid and ineffective. However, if Mrs. Jones is about to have a brain tumor removed (by me) and if she starts panting and says "I'm so scared of dying" or something to that effect, I would reassure her of the relative safety of the procedure and then would ask her if she would like to know more about my faith and how I would deal with a situation like this. If she says "No," then that's the end of the discussion. If she says "Yes," then I explain to her my beliefs and try to comfort her in that context.
Please don't trivialize this. We are NOT fools or tactless idiots - but we do have strong beliefs and aren't afraid or ashamed to tell others about them.
mercaptovizadeh said:Who said anything about FORCING anybody to hear or DO anything? I said, I think it is OK to broach the topic, if they are not receptive, there is nothing more you can do. If they seem interested, then it should be OK to tell them more.
Forcing our views would mean we were stuffing it down their throats or refusing treatment BECAUSE THEY REFUSE TO LISTEN TO OUR BELIEFS. That would be highly immoral. However, simply telling them, if they are interested, about our beliefs is NOT wrong, and neither is refusing to perform or refer a procedure that we consider disgusting and immoral.
Pembleton said:If I'm fortunate enough to become a physician, then I will not be introducing my faith willy-nilly to my patients. I don't do that now, talk to random acquaintances about Christ.
However, while treating someone, I will resort to prayer to complement my medical knowledge. Silent prayer, of course.
And if someone asks to be prayed for, then I will comply also.
Psycho Doctor said:and which is worse...to offend someone momentarily or to allow them to spend eternity in hell?
Psycho Doctor said:and which is worse...to offend someone momentarily or to allow them to spend eternity in hell?
ElKapitan said:You have proven my point exactly. This is what is called condescion; you are saying if I don't believe in your beliefs, I go to hell. Can you see how arrogant you are? In my religous beliefs, "the first will come last and the last will come first." Walk softly when you committ others to hell, because how do you know you are not going to be there?
velocypedalist said:Patient: "Excuse me, may I speak to a lawyer, my doctor told me I was going to hell"
Lawyer: "...."
Patient: "Are you there?"
Lawyer: *weeps softly*
Patient: "Are you crying?"
Lawyer: "I'm sorry...its just so beautiful...yacht club here i come!"
Psycho Doctor said:i don't but why take a chance? Only God truly judges but he also commands us to spread the gospel message.
Now let me ask you, if you knew a person had a disease but he didn't believe he did and you knew if he didn't get treatment, he would die, would you try to convince him your views? Is that being arrogant.
velocypedalist said:you're not in school yet right? when you get to school next year ask whoever is teaching you ethics about unsolicited proselytizing to your patients. Its not only unethical, its just plain unprofessional.