for some reason the thread wouldnt let me reply... so im just gonna make a new thread. im sorry for the trouble...
anyways,,, ok.. here i go,
so it seems to go like this, i mean with all do respect i agree with the first perspective. asians are.... well for the most part... in it for social status and for the money. most of them. i do not .. i repeat.. DO NOT know allot of asians whom pick career paths for the compassion for the work itself. im asian. korean and jap mixed. so im pretty much the most asian you can get next to chinese.
koreans? YEA.. theyre greedy. money grubbing status hungry hogs. most of us. we are.. its true. you just look at what most korean college students study.
engineering.
med
law
law
business
accountingly
law
med
med
the list goes on. perhaps its just some bitter sense of competition that we asians take for position.
japanese?
yes.. they are also very academically competitive. and yes most of them go into mainstream jobs. med, law, whatever.
now does that mean every asian is in it for the cash? no not really but i would be willing to bet at least more than half are.. give or take a few percentages.
i live in california, so thats how it is here. im not sure about other places. but cali is prob one of the states with the largest population of asian cultures next to maybe NY.
.. well now.. you see as luck would have it, people do not appreciate stereotypes and biased perspectives. why? .. hmm.. maybe they are true? not to infer that my intentions are TRULY altruistic. because they are not. not completely. and to be honest im not sure what you other asian people think about medicine. i mean... really.. REALLY think about it. because to me it seems like some kind of tool we use to gain some status symbol. whats the greatest line a person can tell another when asked .. "what do you do??.. " . and you reply.. oh a doctor. (trying to be modest).
yeah.. i think asians are pretty goal oriented.. given that we work pretty hard to get where we are. living in a country that provides the freedom that most of our countries do not.
but is it our fault? possibly. maybe.. but sometimes, we cannot be in control of everything that happens in our lives, and as humans we take heed, and force a survival instinct and try to come out on top. or provide future generations with better lives.
but do you think some asian people take it too far? yeah sure why not. you know, people always talk so highly about asian people as if they work so hard to get where we are. i mean it some cases that maybe true, but we all do it for a reason. and to look at it from an objective point of view, yeah we are no better than the rest of america. we try our best and subscribe to the whole idea of the american dream. get educated and make the most money you can. or open up a business and take advantage of the free market this country offers.
you cant sit there and say that its unfair. because thats circular reasoning. isnt life unfair?
stop complaining and deal with it.
find a way around it.
the more you think about it, the more nothing is going to get done.
act, do not think.
make it happen.
if you think its unfair, do somethng about it. dont be like the rest of the asians who sit on their butts and complain about this country. its better than where we have come from, and if you dont like it here, go back. see how you like life in the old country.
being asian, but being raised in the states has opened up my eyes. i see the american perspective of life, and also the bitter truth of how asians view life as well.
and to be honest, yeah.. most asians are pretty selfish. greedy, goal oriented to make something of themselves. but at the same time.. arent we all?
isnt this what life is about? making a difference? taking risks, solving problems. growing old and realizing the important things.
dont waste your time grumbling over the inconsistantcies of the american educational system, because its wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy better than the one we have in our own country.
think about it. why the heck did you come here to goto school in the first place? to eat burgers and hotdogs? to count the mountains and admire the american flag? give me a break.
anyways,,, ok.. here i go,
so it seems to go like this, i mean with all do respect i agree with the first perspective. asians are.... well for the most part... in it for social status and for the money. most of them. i do not .. i repeat.. DO NOT know allot of asians whom pick career paths for the compassion for the work itself. im asian. korean and jap mixed. so im pretty much the most asian you can get next to chinese.
koreans? YEA.. theyre greedy. money grubbing status hungry hogs. most of us. we are.. its true. you just look at what most korean college students study.
engineering.
med
law
law
business
accountingly
law
med
med
the list goes on. perhaps its just some bitter sense of competition that we asians take for position.
japanese?
yes.. they are also very academically competitive. and yes most of them go into mainstream jobs. med, law, whatever.
now does that mean every asian is in it for the cash? no not really but i would be willing to bet at least more than half are.. give or take a few percentages.
i live in california, so thats how it is here. im not sure about other places. but cali is prob one of the states with the largest population of asian cultures next to maybe NY.
.. well now.. you see as luck would have it, people do not appreciate stereotypes and biased perspectives. why? .. hmm.. maybe they are true? not to infer that my intentions are TRULY altruistic. because they are not. not completely. and to be honest im not sure what you other asian people think about medicine. i mean... really.. REALLY think about it. because to me it seems like some kind of tool we use to gain some status symbol. whats the greatest line a person can tell another when asked .. "what do you do??.. " . and you reply.. oh a doctor. (trying to be modest).
yeah.. i think asians are pretty goal oriented.. given that we work pretty hard to get where we are. living in a country that provides the freedom that most of our countries do not.
but is it our fault? possibly. maybe.. but sometimes, we cannot be in control of everything that happens in our lives, and as humans we take heed, and force a survival instinct and try to come out on top. or provide future generations with better lives.
but do you think some asian people take it too far? yeah sure why not. you know, people always talk so highly about asian people as if they work so hard to get where we are. i mean it some cases that maybe true, but we all do it for a reason. and to look at it from an objective point of view, yeah we are no better than the rest of america. we try our best and subscribe to the whole idea of the american dream. get educated and make the most money you can. or open up a business and take advantage of the free market this country offers.
you cant sit there and say that its unfair. because thats circular reasoning. isnt life unfair?
stop complaining and deal with it.
find a way around it.
the more you think about it, the more nothing is going to get done.
act, do not think.
make it happen.
if you think its unfair, do somethng about it. dont be like the rest of the asians who sit on their butts and complain about this country. its better than where we have come from, and if you dont like it here, go back. see how you like life in the old country.
being asian, but being raised in the states has opened up my eyes. i see the american perspective of life, and also the bitter truth of how asians view life as well.
and to be honest, yeah.. most asians are pretty selfish. greedy, goal oriented to make something of themselves. but at the same time.. arent we all?
isnt this what life is about? making a difference? taking risks, solving problems. growing old and realizing the important things.
dont waste your time grumbling over the inconsistantcies of the american educational system, because its wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy better than the one we have in our own country.
think about it. why the heck did you come here to goto school in the first place? to eat burgers and hotdogs? to count the mountains and admire the american flag? give me a break.