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Hi all,
I just had my last standardized patient encounter for medical school before I start as a PGY1 in July. One of my "patients" identified as LGBTQ+ and used they/them pronouns. Sure, no problem. However, after the encounter was over and I was getting debriefed on how I did, I was reprimanded for asking if their partner was a man or a woman. They said that this type of language was harmful as it was gender binary and my patient clearly did not fit into this category. They suggested to ask my patients, "what does your partner identify as," as this type of language is more ambiguous/inclusive. I don't have a problem with it, I try to be as inclusive as possible, but I felt a little off-put that they told me my gender binary language was harmful. I remember when I was on inpatient psych during third year, one of the attendings rarely used pronouns other than the ones assigned at birth. He felt many of the patients frequently switched pronouns as a way to be passive aggressive and difficult, or because gender dysphoria was part of their diagnosis and he did not want to validate the illness. Obviously these are two different patient populations, but it was interesting to see the opposing argument. Ultimately, I just want to do right by the patient. As a soon to be psychiatrist I am wondering how you docs go about this/your view point on the matter.
Thanks!
I just had my last standardized patient encounter for medical school before I start as a PGY1 in July. One of my "patients" identified as LGBTQ+ and used they/them pronouns. Sure, no problem. However, after the encounter was over and I was getting debriefed on how I did, I was reprimanded for asking if their partner was a man or a woman. They said that this type of language was harmful as it was gender binary and my patient clearly did not fit into this category. They suggested to ask my patients, "what does your partner identify as," as this type of language is more ambiguous/inclusive. I don't have a problem with it, I try to be as inclusive as possible, but I felt a little off-put that they told me my gender binary language was harmful. I remember when I was on inpatient psych during third year, one of the attendings rarely used pronouns other than the ones assigned at birth. He felt many of the patients frequently switched pronouns as a way to be passive aggressive and difficult, or because gender dysphoria was part of their diagnosis and he did not want to validate the illness. Obviously these are two different patient populations, but it was interesting to see the opposing argument. Ultimately, I just want to do right by the patient. As a soon to be psychiatrist I am wondering how you docs go about this/your view point on the matter.
Thanks!