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I just got a letter of U Rochester. I am an alternate for the combined program. Anyone else in my boat? I really liked the program, but I am a little hesitant to pursue it because I feel like they view me as not quite good enough.
The statement: "Being an alternate to a program, even if you have the chance to move up the list and make it into the class, is just not good enough. Other places want me as a first choice. . . Why should I be leftovers for them. . ."
I know that statement is a little arrogant and that many people find happiness at schools they were waitlisted at, but I cannot help feeling that way.
Anyone else dealing with this strange emotion?
The statement: "Being an alternate to a program, even if you have the chance to move up the list and make it into the class, is just not good enough. Other places want me as a first choice. . . Why should I be leftovers for them. . ."
I know that statement is a little arrogant and that many people find happiness at schools they were waitlisted at, but I cannot help feeling that way.
Anyone else dealing with this strange emotion?