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Wow I've never been called a hippie liberal before! Thanks Cartman!
To echo what some others have said, I'll tell you a little anecdote:
I used to work for Microsoft. In case you aren't familiar with it, Microsoft makes software and for a number of years the people working there made a LOT of money. (Through stock options) Many of these people are my friends. A few of my more foolish friends bought BMW's/Jaguars/Mercedes and 500k+ houses and other trappings of the wealthy. Then the market tanked and some lost a lot of their investments. In addition, Microsoft stock is no longer going anywhere. Some have had to sell their houses and move in to more "modest" 250-300k places and trade in their BMW for a Honda. Those that still have a lot of money didn't spend it in the first place and had lower living expenses.
During the time when they made lots of money, they were more stressed out than they are now. They were obsessed with it and I can't tell you how many boring coversations about vesting strategies and such I had to endure. (I can't say I never did that too though) Now they actually talk about normal people things like what they're going to do on the weekend and how their kids are doing in school. And they are actually taking their vacation time now. Work and money aren't as all consuming as they once were.
Amicus, it appears that we are all generally in agreement.
-Money does not equal happiness.
-One should not give up on their aspirations.
-It's useful for us all to organize and make sure we don't get financially screwed by the insurance companies, etc.
And you're right, 10 years is a big investment in time and there's no way you can accurately forecast what employment and salaries are going to be like. But this kind of gambling is no different than the gambles that millions of others take when they get advanced degrees that take years + money to make happen. So let's not expect that we will make X dollars a year, but let's also fight for what we feel like is merited by our efforts. No one here is saying "settle for less". We're just saying that in the worst case scenario we will still be able to live a great life that's at a much higher standard of living than most people.
To echo what some others have said, I'll tell you a little anecdote:
I used to work for Microsoft. In case you aren't familiar with it, Microsoft makes software and for a number of years the people working there made a LOT of money. (Through stock options) Many of these people are my friends. A few of my more foolish friends bought BMW's/Jaguars/Mercedes and 500k+ houses and other trappings of the wealthy. Then the market tanked and some lost a lot of their investments. In addition, Microsoft stock is no longer going anywhere. Some have had to sell their houses and move in to more "modest" 250-300k places and trade in their BMW for a Honda. Those that still have a lot of money didn't spend it in the first place and had lower living expenses.
During the time when they made lots of money, they were more stressed out than they are now. They were obsessed with it and I can't tell you how many boring coversations about vesting strategies and such I had to endure. (I can't say I never did that too though) Now they actually talk about normal people things like what they're going to do on the weekend and how their kids are doing in school. And they are actually taking their vacation time now. Work and money aren't as all consuming as they once were.
Amicus, it appears that we are all generally in agreement.
-Money does not equal happiness.
-One should not give up on their aspirations.
-It's useful for us all to organize and make sure we don't get financially screwed by the insurance companies, etc.
And you're right, 10 years is a big investment in time and there's no way you can accurately forecast what employment and salaries are going to be like. But this kind of gambling is no different than the gambles that millions of others take when they get advanced degrees that take years + money to make happen. So let's not expect that we will make X dollars a year, but let's also fight for what we feel like is merited by our efforts. No one here is saying "settle for less". We're just saying that in the worst case scenario we will still be able to live a great life that's at a much higher standard of living than most people.
) Seriously, I do know that it may very well be more difficult for me to get in than traditional students, but I'm not one to back down from a challenge, particularly when I feel as strongly about something as I do about being a doctor. As to whether or not the deck is stacked "overwhelmingly" against me....I don't think I'd go that far. Med schools in general, and DO schools in particular, are becoming more and more willing to accept older students. (Check out