You can print your ticket anywhere as long as you know what you're doing once you're there. (TL/DR: What's your mission fit?)
I think you have a strong list of schools in general. Your list of activities is like a checklist, so connecting them with your purpose will help you pare down this list and pick up others.
Networking: MSPA, APAMSA too.
If you like Ohio, I suppose you can keep Ohio State and Cincinnati. Vermont if you really like Dartmouth.
I would check the list about student insurance and health care coverage as LGBTQ+, given the state politics. You have your clear advantages with NC in-state, but do your homework with the other states (the Ohio schools, Vanderbilt, WashU, Mayo Arizona, Emory). It might not be enough to not include them, but think seriously about the community support. I would have thrown in Miami, but Florida...
Go to the recruitment events and flash your metrics badge to make them recruit you.
Any feedback about your Duke committee letter?