He could also just enter a bachelors degree PA program...
Would you rather practice medicine or nursing??
That's really the bottom line question.
And as a nurse, I will tell you, many folks don't have a clue what many of us do.
One guy in a quicky market saw my Littman in my pocket and wanted to know why, if I was not a doctor (he first assume I was), would I need it. If he could come to some of the units and follow me around-- ah but even then . . .
Having done critical care nursing and learned and experienced many things, I have to admit, primariy it's ultimately a different focus--medicine versus nursing. There's some overlap both ways; but overall, my issue in nursing mostly is that my head just tends to go more toward medicine. The art and science of each field are of a different kind of focus.
So I know you don't want to hear do some research; but until you really spend some time in it and then spend some time shadowing in those areas, you will be doing yourself a disservice. And yes check out PA programs.
Have you considered law school and then healthcare law? Many nurses and doctors end up going in that direction and combine their expertise--and many are over 40 and find positions r//t healthcare and do well.
So to be more directed to the real question you ended with, I'd have to say for you perhaps NP or CRNA or someting like that; but you need a BSN and then to get into a strong NP program or nurse to JD (law) or PA or BSN to nurse anesthetist program. If nurse anesthetist, you'll need BSN and then you'll need to get strong experience in critical care/ ICUs as well sound coursework/GPA and GRE that are are strong enough. CRNA programs are very limited in seat number; thus they can be competitive. So, that would move you to a few years in an acclerated BSN, if you already have your undergrad, then a few years in critical care (Alhough I believe the more the better--nurses are going into school and moving straight into such grad programs after only a year of solid full-time clinical experience, and a number do so for the money and b/c clinical nursing can be more demanding then they thought it would be--a lot of reality shock. So this is a bit of peeve of mine; b/c we have all these nurses with really limited clinical insight going into grad programs to function on advanced levels; but they don't have the experience and will only get so much clinical time in their various programs to come out strong.
See if I were running these advanced practice programs--for nurses or PAs--I'd require a lot more clinical hours and exposures--ah wow. . .more like actual physicians get in residencies. Ut oh. Now I just made a bunch of nurses mad. Sorry. I'm there for ya guys. I just think physicians get a lot more overall education and supervised and supportive clinical guidance.
Wow. . .sorry I went on there. ..but you could go that route.
I don't know how much you are looking for--in terms of anything--but I am sensing an income requirement, and I understand--I'm totally not judging. But just know that in many clincial and healthcare areas, there is not quick way to making six figures. . . though that is certainly possible in a CRNA program--or maybe even with some that go through first-assistant programs (OR)--or those that advance high in administration. But you will still need a bachelor's for a CRNA program, a route to high-level administrative role--really a master's at least. Again, you will need ICU clinical experience, preferrably over a year (But yes, again, IMHO, nurses are just scratching the surface with only 1 to 3 years in critical care), and then you have to jump through all the program hoops, GRE, be competitive, have LORs, etc and then do the 2.5 or so years of intensive education/training in a nurse anesthetist program. After that and often waking up early enough to get in there at 0600 many mornings, then you have to sit for the board examination--specialized for that. And while in a CRNA program, the PDs don't recommend you work while you are in them, and some won't allow it, period.
I know CRNAs making over $140,000 per year. I know some NPs making 90,000-110,000 or so, while others are making about 80,000. Experienced nurses in specialized areas make more than %60,000's and 70,000, depending on the region in which you work, and if you are talking 36 hours or 40 or more. But also note that in this economic situation, hospitals are doing serious hiring freezes. Many GNs and even experienced RNs are having a much harder time finding positions.
In this economy and with things going the way they are, this is a tough call; and I'd say find out what you love. Finances matter; but it will cost time and a lot of money to go through any program--post-secondary education in this country is outrageous.
Or go to a local college and see some academic support people that can give you tests to help you figure out where your various strengths are and what you may be more wired for.
I disagree about JD and MPH and worse odds after 40. You bring a lot with you to the table. A lot of it is perseverance and presenation. So what do you want?
I can tell you personall that with my various ICU/C.C. experience, nurse anesthesia would be a lot of a easier jump for me than med school. But it is not what I want. And besides the education process, I'd be bored ultimately in CRNA role, whereas as an anesthesiologist, I would be less so, for as an ologist, there is more autonomy and way more options. Not that this is what I am setting out for in going to med school.
But hey it's not a huge money thing for me compared with some other nurses I've worked with. They see the six figures in CRNA, and they start jumping for the CRNA hoops, even with far less intensive care surgery, peds, etc as what I have.
I know me, and after a while, I would feel so robotized in the role. CRNAs can do a lot; but they will never totally take over anesthesia. I am not so sure why some ologists are even nervous about them totally taking over. I just don't see it. CRNAs will always have to work under an anesthesiologist, and really, IMO, that is exactly how it should be. (I just know a nurse is going to read this and get ticked at me.)
But if you can with live that and whatever hoops that are required, then make it a plan and go for it; but definitely spend some time in a very busy, university based critical care unit before you embark upon this journey.
People can work well into their 70's and some more than that if they stay in good shape and if they are healthy enough, and if it is the kind of work that they pretty much love. I say find and do what you love.
If you are getting a decent severance from IBM, well, there's no fire. You are young. You can pretty much do whatever you'd like. It's just, well, it's not good to waste a lot of time and money in something that will end up making you sick and loathing going into work everyday if you can help it.
Good luck. Firecloud, you can PM me, and I will give you some more info re: nursing, NP, CRNA, etc, if you want.