Anasazi23 said:
I don't seem to have a problem with this. Only rarely does a case truly make me feel uneasy enough; either that I did something wrong and the patient will be harmed, or that a situation is truly awful, that I would actively think about this at home.
Hobbies are great. I've got lots.
I actually disagree with DS on this one and COMPLETELY agree with Sazi. I have a full life, full of CN, my new house, my new environment, friends, people around, etc etc. Yeah, ofcourse I get the advice about what about so and so because of odd behavior, but for the most part, we talk about things like, what our children are doing, what car we bought, what color we painted the house, etc etc etc (oh, and beers are ALWAYS involved shut up, it doesn't need a diagnosis!) but my point is, theres a time and place to worry about x,y,z, and home is NOT it.
I enjoy being home, I have friends that are residents, we don't talk about medicine and whats going on in MEDICINE or PSYCh, we talk about our LIVES - which is the distinction between letting a career define you vs. letting it be just an aspect of who you are as a person.
The day I go home and neglect my little one for the sake of worrying excessively about a patient is the day I need to get some therapy myself.
Like Sazi said - if its not something I'm should be worried about like hurting someone, I should be spending my home time at home. This is not to say that I should not have time set aside to study on my own, and to learn about my patients when not in clinic - what I'm saying is, HOME TIME SHOULD BE HOME TIME!
I segregate a part of each day, even now when I'm on vacation to stay connected to my career - if I didn't, I wouldn't be prepared at all, but for the most part, this IS a vacation - and I'm enjoying it. Time off is just that, time you are not seeing patients, time you are to replenish yourself. If you lose that, in the long run you will get burned out - and end up with a broken marriage, household and lack of support which ultimately we all need.