Sex With Preceptor...

Started by DrGERD
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Im sorry thats just too pathetic for me to comprehend. A person so weak willed they will spread their legs for a freakin LOR? Really? It was not coersion she stated in her OP she was attracted to him. She wanted to get laid and also likely thought by sleeping wih him shed get ahead. The fault rests with her as muchas with him period.

I'm not saying that this is what happened or even that the OP was unwilling. But you yourself said that she "likely thought by sleeping wih him shed get ahead." Wouldn't even just ALLOWING a subordinate to think that he/she could get ahead by sleeping with you be an unethical use/abuse of power?
 
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That's why you take them out to boat dinners and get them drunk. How else do you think the OP's situation occurred 😉
 
Your preceptor wouldn't look like this by any chance would he?:

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I wonder how many dudes have self completed to this story already. Sdn should have a separate sextion for these types of stories.
 
OP if you could provide a bit more detail, particularly of the events that transpired on the boat, a blow by blow account if you could, that would really help us better evaluate your situation and give you better advice.
 
OP if you could provide a bit more detail, particularly of the events that transpired on the boat, a blow by blow account if you could, that would really help us better evaluate your situation and give you better advice.

It's a shame she was banned, this could have been even funnier.
 
Your profile says med student. Have you not had an ethics/professionalism lecture? This scenario is pretty cut and dry. The fact that he was in a position of power over her is key. Even though she consented, if she went after him he wouldn't have a case.

Thats what she said
 
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This happened twice in my class with different students, I don't really think it's all that uncommon...position of power, fit 25 year olds...it's a recipe for sexin.
 
This happened twice in my class with different students, I don't really think it's all that uncommon...position of power, fit 25 year olds...it's a recipe for sexin.

Yeah it ain't as uncommon as one would think. My class had about three chicks who hooked up with hotshot surgeons.