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So... what shady behaviors have you guys encountered from your fellow classmates out on rotations?
I've been a little spoiled because most of my rotations I've had real great classmates. We helped each other out & we were all genuinely interested in learning the material.
Now... it's a new situation. This dude seemed real nice at first. I actually trusted him more than other people. But true colors are revealed. We all agree to show up at a certain time. It was agreed what work we'd all do. Well, dude shows up an hr early & gets credit for doing the work. Makes me look like a slacker.
Never encountered this before. I don't care what he does to ingratiate himself with the attendings/residents... but just don't do it at my expense, kwim? What's extra annoying is I think he thought I'd be stupid & happy & actually thank him for it.
I've noticed he's done little things similar to this to other people. Like, try to take their patients in the guise of "wanting to help out". (But of course, only wanting to help out when the residents are watching!). No one else has really caught on to this though... 'cuz he hasn't done anything quite this excessive to anyone else.
How do you guys handle stuff like this? Should I let my other classmates know about what happened? Part of it is, I think he feels like he can get away with it 'cuz the rest of us are kind of naive. And maybe he figures I wouldn't bring it up with anyone.
I hate drama, so I'm inclined to just leave things alone. On the other hand, I don't want to be taken advantage of.
I THINK I should just take the high road & let him shoot himself in the foot eventually. It's hard for me to hide my feelings though. Also, it grosses me out to see him take advantage of other people and have them thank him for it.
It's kinda sad when you can't trust people on rotations. I mean, in most other "job environments", you're not on constantly on the watch out for underhanded behavior from every single coworker.
How do you maintain trust in people without being too trusting?
I've been a little spoiled because most of my rotations I've had real great classmates. We helped each other out & we were all genuinely interested in learning the material.
Now... it's a new situation. This dude seemed real nice at first. I actually trusted him more than other people. But true colors are revealed. We all agree to show up at a certain time. It was agreed what work we'd all do. Well, dude shows up an hr early & gets credit for doing the work. Makes me look like a slacker.
Never encountered this before. I don't care what he does to ingratiate himself with the attendings/residents... but just don't do it at my expense, kwim? What's extra annoying is I think he thought I'd be stupid & happy & actually thank him for it.
I've noticed he's done little things similar to this to other people. Like, try to take their patients in the guise of "wanting to help out". (But of course, only wanting to help out when the residents are watching!). No one else has really caught on to this though... 'cuz he hasn't done anything quite this excessive to anyone else.
How do you guys handle stuff like this? Should I let my other classmates know about what happened? Part of it is, I think he feels like he can get away with it 'cuz the rest of us are kind of naive. And maybe he figures I wouldn't bring it up with anyone.
I hate drama, so I'm inclined to just leave things alone. On the other hand, I don't want to be taken advantage of.
I THINK I should just take the high road & let him shoot himself in the foot eventually. It's hard for me to hide my feelings though. Also, it grosses me out to see him take advantage of other people and have them thank him for it.
It's kinda sad when you can't trust people on rotations. I mean, in most other "job environments", you're not on constantly on the watch out for underhanded behavior from every single coworker.
How do you maintain trust in people without being too trusting?