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A coworker of mine has spent the last week with his dad in the hospital who has been taken off life support and will soon pass. It has been a slow decline over a week. I have scrambled to help him get his shifts covered (three so far) so he can just be with his dad. Now we have to worry about next week’s shifts as well.
But it got me thinking. In any other field it’s acceptable in a situation like this to take a week or two off to be with the dying family member and deal with the aftermath. But in our line of work taking off even a day can be a huge ordeal, scrambling to find coverage. Much less multiple days. And when people “can’t” or are unwilling to help what can you do?
The ideal (as sick as this sounds) way for a family member to go is during a stretch of days off and then you just have to work on coverage for the day off for the funeral. But how does it work when a family member is dying slowly over the course of a week? Worse, a child? Spouse? Is your supervisor really still supposed to tell you “you’re responsible for finding your own coverage” beyond X Y Z dates? I am the scheduler and it has been a nightmare trying to get coworkers to step up and help. So one day we had to be down a provider. It makes it seem impossible this person could take any more days off and he’s only had a week off. It’s sad that this person has had to think about work during a time like this (luckily I was able to take the reins and get his three shifts covered but still). How do you guys deal with it in your neck of the woods?
I have elderly grandparents I am incredibly close to, they are pretty much like parents. And it’s sad to know that when he finally passed, my entire family will be at their side and I might not be able to be with them in their last moments because some might say that “grandparents dying is not the same as a spouse / child / parent / whatever.” It’s weird to think that if I face a death or any other tragedy I will be on my phone texting my boss about work coverage every day.
But it got me thinking. In any other field it’s acceptable in a situation like this to take a week or two off to be with the dying family member and deal with the aftermath. But in our line of work taking off even a day can be a huge ordeal, scrambling to find coverage. Much less multiple days. And when people “can’t” or are unwilling to help what can you do?
The ideal (as sick as this sounds) way for a family member to go is during a stretch of days off and then you just have to work on coverage for the day off for the funeral. But how does it work when a family member is dying slowly over the course of a week? Worse, a child? Spouse? Is your supervisor really still supposed to tell you “you’re responsible for finding your own coverage” beyond X Y Z dates? I am the scheduler and it has been a nightmare trying to get coworkers to step up and help. So one day we had to be down a provider. It makes it seem impossible this person could take any more days off and he’s only had a week off. It’s sad that this person has had to think about work during a time like this (luckily I was able to take the reins and get his three shifts covered but still). How do you guys deal with it in your neck of the woods?
I have elderly grandparents I am incredibly close to, they are pretty much like parents. And it’s sad to know that when he finally passed, my entire family will be at their side and I might not be able to be with them in their last moments because some might say that “grandparents dying is not the same as a spouse / child / parent / whatever.” It’s weird to think that if I face a death or any other tragedy I will be on my phone texting my boss about work coverage every day.