Should I be outraged?

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Yesterday I received an e-mail from a school that I applied to a while ago, interviewed through the early decision program and was rejected a few weeks later. The e-mail was inviting me for a regular decision interview. Now, I have already been accepted to a school that I really like and am ecstatic about attending. I almost immediately sent an e-mail back saying that I no longer wanted to interview, but I figured I would take the night and sleep on the decision. The school was my number one choice initially solely based on location, so even though I'm sitting on an acceptance that I'm really excited about, the prospect of staying close to home was still appealing.

I made the decision to e-mail the admissions office and see if I could get a shortened interview day (since I had already interviewed) without the campus tour/informational meetings. This was how I was going to base my decision: if they allowed a shortened interview day, I would interview, if not, I would decline the invite. Pretty simple.

I sent the e-mail and received an e-mail back saying that the e-mail was sent by mistake, that it wasn't supposed to go out to people who had previously been rejected. Apparently there was an error in their "e-mail distribution listings."

At first I laughed it off, finding it humorous since I wasn't planning on attending and only a small part of my wanted to attend the interview, anyway. It made my decision much easier...However, the more I've been thinking about it, the more angry I'm becoming. What if this had been sent out to someone who was holding out hope, and this was their last chance? In this case, it could very well have been!

I just think this is a careless mistake by a medical school that is supposed to exhibit professionalism and integrity. This isn't the first time this school has made me angry with the way the interviewees were treated. I'm tempted to write a scathing e-mail and CC it to everyone involved with the admissions office, because I think this is a ridiculous and careless mistake. I know it probably won't have any bearing on how they conduct their business, but at least it would be cathartic and let them know they screwed up. Am I out of line for thinking that this type of mistake shouldn't occur, especially with prospective medical students who have worked hard and played the waiting game for an entire application cycle?
 
Bad juju. You would be wise to ignore the situation. You're not a crusader fighting for the plight of the common pre-med. Sounds like an unfortunate mishap on their part. You can never quite know how your impulsive actions may come back to bite you.
 
To be perfectly honest, at this point, I think you're time and energy is better spent doing something that doesn't frustrate you! Firstly, congrats on an acceptance to a school that you really like! It sucks that this school made a mistake - it shouldn't occur - but I still think that it's a fruitless endeavor to call them out.
 
Should it happen? No. However, let it go and move on.
 
Annoyed yes. Outraged is being over-dramatic. Let those without an acceptance overburden themselves with feelings of infuriation. Many schools unfortunately go through periods of accidental emails during the admission cycles. It's nothing new or exclusive to this school.

Be happy that you'll attend a school that wants you. This school can kiss your butt. You never know, maybe if you matriculated, you'd hate the atmosphere, the professors or the curriculum. You never know!
 
Haha yes, outraged was a strong (if not overly dramatic...) word. I'm not even angry on my behalf, but rather for others who haven't been accepted who may have been affected by this. I'm not going to send anything back - I agree that we can never predict what may come from impulsive responses to situations we have no control over.
 
It seems like a poor situation for both ends but handling it gracefully would probably be best. They've already found out they've made the mistake and probably feel pretty crappy about it already, no need to pile on at this point. Stay cool and be happy you have an acceptance, the students who are outraged that they had their hopes dashed can handle themselves and take it up with the adcom. But still, pretty unusual.
 
I remember last year UCLA accidentally either sent out interview invites or acceptances to people that they didn't actually choose. I imagine being a cali student, getting one of those and then being told so sorry, we no liek.
 
Agreed with everyone, you should be pissed but don't do anything that can come back around and hit you. Never burn your bridges.
 
People make mistakes. It's not like the admissions staff are chortling to themselves about this and totally unaware that they ****ed up and really crushed some people.
 
There are definitely risks involved, however I would not let it go.
I would tread lightly and email only the director letting him/her know politely so it doesn't happen again.
I am surprised at the attitude that everyone has towards this?
It obviously hit some kind of nerve to the OP (and rightly so,) should it go unresolved?

Clearly they know about the situation since the OP is not the only one who got this email. So it's common sense they would prevent this from happening again.

But so what? Why instigate? 1 rejected applicant vs an entire school administration? There's nothing to gain from this.

Its about maturity, not pride.
 
There are definitely risks involved, however I would not let it go.
I would tread lightly and email only the director letting him/her know politely so it doesn't happen again.
I am surprised at the attitude that everyone has towards this?
It obviously hit some kind of nerve to the OP (and rightly so,) should it go unresolved?
You know what they will do? Ignore the letter. They already know mistakes happen but shouldn't happen.
 
Do not email the school! Nothing good will come of it. Be grateful for your acceptance and move on
 
There are definitely risks involved, however I would not let it go.
I would tread lightly and email only the director letting him/her know politely so it doesn't happen again.
I am surprised at the attitude that everyone has towards this?
It obviously hit some kind of nerve to the OP (and rightly so,) should it go unresolved?

To what end? In medicine, and in life, you should consider what you hope to achieve by going forward with a decision of action. There is no utility to be gained here.
 
Yeah I agree with most of the people, do not email the school. What if you really want to do residency at their hospital? This might come back to bite you then.
 
People make mistakes. Life will go on.

Yesterday I received an e-mail from a school that I applied to a while ago, interviewed through the early decision program and was rejected a few weeks later. The e-mail was inviting me for a regular decision interview. Now, I have already been accepted to a school that I really like and am ecstatic about attending. I almost immediately sent an e-mail back saying that I no longer wanted to interview, but I figured I would take the night and sleep on the decision. The school was my number one choice initially solely based on location, so even though I'm sitting on an acceptance that I'm really excited about, the prospect of staying close to home was still appealing.

I made the decision to e-mail the admissions office and see if I could get a shortened interview day (since I had already interviewed) without the campus tour/informational meetings. This was how I was going to base my decision: if they allowed a shortened interview day, I would interview, if not, I would decline the invite. Pretty simple.

I sent the e-mail and received an e-mail back saying that the e-mail was sent by mistake, that it wasn't supposed to go out to people who had previously been rejected. Apparently there was an error in their "e-mail distribution listings."

At first I laughed it off, finding it humorous since I wasn't planning on attending and only a small part of my wanted to attend the interview, anyway. It made my decision much easier...However, the more I've been thinking about it, the more angry I'm becoming. What if this had been sent out to someone who was holding out hope, and this was their last chance? In this case, it could very well have been!

I just think this is a careless mistake by a medical school that is supposed to exhibit professionalism and integrity. This isn't the first time this school has made me angry with the way the interviewees were treated. I'm tempted to write a scathing e-mail and CC it to everyone involved with the admissions office, because I think this is a ridiculous and careless mistake. I know it probably won't have any bearing on how they conduct their business, but at least it would be cathartic and let them know they screwed up. Am I out of line for thinking that this type of mistake shouldn't occur, especially with prospective medical students who have worked hard and played the waiting game for an entire application cycle?
 
I just went ahead and deleted the e-mail. Again, I wasn't even angry on my behalf. I was in a situation last year (my first year applying) where I was holding out hope at this point, although I knew my chances were slim. I would have been angry had that happened, and I got an e-mail back saying that I was invited by mistake. This school seems to have a very disorganized admissions staff and I haven't really had a great experience. I know that a response would have fallen on deaf ears and come across as bitter on my part. My anger wasn't just at this one event, but rather the culmination of a cycle's worth of events.
 
I just went ahead and deleted the e-mail. Again, I wasn't even angry on my behalf. I was in a situation last year (my first year applying) where I was holding out hope at this point, although I knew my chances were slim. I would have been angry had that happened, and I got an e-mail back saying that I was invited by mistake. This school seems to have a very disorganized admissions staff and I haven't really had a great experience. I know that a response would have fallen on deaf ears and come across as bitter on my part. My anger wasn't just at this one event, but rather the culmination of a cycle's worth of events.
Good choice. You never know where you might want to go for residency in four years, or be looking for a job in 10. While feelings fade, burned bridges don't.
 
. This isn't the first time this school has made me angry with the way the interviewees were treated. I'm tempted to write a scathing e-mail and CC it to everyone involved with the admissions office, because I think this is a ridiculous and careless mistake.
I know it probably won't have any bearing on how they conduct their business, but at least it would be cathartic and let them know they screwed up.
Am I out of line for thinking that this type of mistake shouldn't occur, especially with prospective medical students who have worked hard and played the waiting game for an entire application cycle?

You stated it won't have any bearing on the way they do things. You're probably right. A tirade seldom helps people, and if it does help them in the moment to get what they want, it soils their reputation somewhere, to someone, and you never know. It's better to be the professional in the situation.

Let it go.
 
Ironically schools preach about professionalism constantly. This was very unprofessional of them and sounds like it was handled poorly. I'd hope for more than a whoops lol response.
 
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