Hi everyone,
If your SO/spouse is moving with you, would you go to a school that's not your top choice so that your SO can continue to pursue his/her career while you are in med school?
My top choice is the University of Iowa (Carver) and I'm #2 on the waitlist. However, I'm already accepted at NYMC, so going there would make it easier in terms of him being able to continue with his career (He works for a big financial institution whose headquarters are in NYC, and he could do an inter-office transfer). Plus, we could probably live closer to the city, and we both LOVE NYC
Most of the people I've talked to say I should go to Iowa if accepted, since I've worked hard to get to where I am, and he can figure out what to do afterwards. What do you guys think? What would you do?
On a side note, even though Iowa might be considered more reputable, is the difference between Iowa and NYMC significant enough where it really matters?
If your SO/spouse is moving with you, would you go to a school that's not your top choice so that your SO can continue to pursue his/her career while you are in med school?
My top choice is the University of Iowa (Carver) and I'm #2 on the waitlist. However, I'm already accepted at NYMC, so going there would make it easier in terms of him being able to continue with his career (He works for a big financial institution whose headquarters are in NYC, and he could do an inter-office transfer). Plus, we could probably live closer to the city, and we both LOVE NYC
Most of the people I've talked to say I should go to Iowa if accepted, since I've worked hard to get to where I am, and he can figure out what to do afterwards. What do you guys think? What would you do?
On a side note, even though Iowa might be considered more reputable, is the difference between Iowa and NYMC significant enough where it really matters?