Some n=1 interview advice

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So I just completed my 4th interview of this cycle, and since I likely won't be doing anymore I thought I'd give some thoughts on the process.

Obviously there's some variance depending on the interview style, but I generally felt like the actual answers that were given to specific questions were pretty irrelevant. In my experience, it was just a giant get-to-know-you exercise. If some of my answers were typed out they would look pretty bad, but it really didn't seem to matter.

There's three things that I felt helped me out a great deal:
1) Answer the question that was asked. They'll get annoyed pretty easily if you babble on about something completely irrelevant to the question at hand. If you don't have a great answer, just be concise and move on to the next one.
2) Make it a conversation and not a Q&A. Would you like someone that only talked about themselves for 30 minutes? Sometimes I had really poor answers but followed up with a question that led into a lengthy back-and-forth conversation. In one of my interviews we talked about college football for more than half the allotted time. This is what you want.
3) Be professional, but relaxed. There's a certain professional etiquette you should obviously adhere to, but don't be robotic. Hopefully you've practiced a bit, but the last thing you want to think about during your interview is your posture, or talking speed, or what to do with your hands. If you've made it to this point, do what feels natural to you (within reason, obviously). I crossed my legs, leaned on one of the arm chairs, and made a lot of hand gestures. Any interview guide will tell you these are no-nos, but it felt natural to me and it made a big difference in the way I was able to converse.

I know I'm going against the grain with some of this advice, but in my case I thought it really helped. I've had great results thus far and received generally good feedback about my interview performance. Best of luck.
 
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Using your hands is a no no? What?

How are hand gestures not considered a professional thing to do? I can understand crossing legs and leaning as not being professional.
 
Using your hands is a no no? What?

How are hand gestures not considered a professional thing to do? I can understand crossing legs and leaning as not being professional.

Using your hands to talk is ok, but most experts will say a lot of hand gestures is an indication of nervousness.
 
Using your hands to talk is ok, but most experts will say a lot of hand gestures is an indication of nervousness.

If someone is using hand gestures, my interpretation is that they are actually relaxed, and explaining things according to how they feel fit. Sitting like a rigid turkey in a seat talking looks more awkward than using your hands to me. This is why interviews are so biased. I see it one way. Others may see it another way. There is no right or wrong answer here.

So I'm a bit skeptical.
 
Using your hands to talk is ok, but most experts will say a lot of hand gestures is an indication of nervousness.

n=1 here, but I gesticulate like a madman and it didn't remotely affect me negatively.
 
Using your hands to talk is ok, but most experts will say a lot of hand gestures is an indication of nervousness.


A fair amount of this can be culturally influenced. What in the world are those of Italian descent to do? I would think sitting on your hand would be quite inappropriate. 😉
 
4 interviews, 4 acceptances, and it honestly depends on your interviewer. I had one that I thought I definitely bombed- stuttering, giving long answers, no conversational topics, etc but was accepted anyways. Some questions I didn't even answer to the point and went off on a tangent.

I came out feeling that I was going to get rejected.

I have a feeling they know who they are going to accept before the interview. Just don't do really stupid things at the interview and you're golden.

I have two more interviews and hopefully I can continue my streak. I want to get in my top choice.
 
If someone is using hand gestures, my interpretation is that they are actually relaxed, and explaining things according to how they feel fit. Sitting like a rigid turkey in a seat talking looks more awkward than using your hands to me. This is why interviews are so biased. I see it one way. Others may see it another way. There is no right or wrong answer here.

So I'm a bit skeptical.

I completely agree with you. It was comfortable to me and that's why I did it. Doing otherwise would have made the whole situation much more awkward.
 
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