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Not necessarily criticizing your position, but having worked in hospice, most of the dying do not have philosophical concerns such as "did I live a good life" or "am I leaving the world a better place." They are more concerned about when they can use their PCA next, how long they are going to suffer (in the sadder cases), and living in the moment because their last is within reach.
Your motto isn't so simple though. You do need to strike a balance between being a good person and being a rational one. Treat others like you want to be treated works with people who are reasonable. You don't offer it to just anyone, for anyone else, you just politely build that wall and stay out of their lives as they should out of yours.
You quoted me when you should have quote someone else that saying it KARMA won't catch up to them ever REGARDLESS of their actions are morally right or not. No one knows if karma ever catch up to them or not or it passed on to their loves one.
I agree that when people laying on their death beds, everyone has different perspective and need. Pain free and alert and conscious patients will be able to ponder about these things. Even patients requiring PCA/epidural/sedation will have moments where they ponder about these even for a few minutes. They can still ask for them and think of it. The only people who may not are those require sedation who never wake up after a traumatic event or died in an instant. We won't know unless you have deep conversation with everyone.
I agree. I try to find balance between rational and a good person. Treat others like you want to be treated doesn't mean I continue to courteous/push over to people regardless of their ill intentions to me or my family. There are boundaries that they shouldn't cross. As long they stay within those boundaries, I have no problem going by those motto in my life and treat others like I want to be treated. It doesn't require money to nice or show kind gesture to someone. Just efforts.
Everyone deserve my respect regardless of their title or socioeconomic status. It's up to them if they want to keep it.
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