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I am beyond excited to start research with my favorite professor in the fall. She's my mentor, advisor, and an incredible person. I initially asked her if I could do research with her in the fall and she told me that she had no more openings, but later in the quarter emailed me essentially saying that she would make room in her lab for me because she thinks I have a lot of potential and doesn't want to lose that. I of course agreed and am still 100% over the moon about it, and so excited. However..
She told me that she usually requires about four hours a week in the lab, which I'm totally okay with. My concern is that I was talking to my friend about it and he said that it starts out like that and then professors start demanding more and more time from you. I'm worried about this, because I like her so much and don't want to be put into a position where my mentor wants me to spend 10+ hours in the lab if I'm overwhelmed with studying and i become a disappointment. I dont think she would do this because she would want what's best for my future, but do professors have a tendency to do that? I'm totally fine with dedicating as much time as I can, even more then 4 hours if I can, but I'm concerned because my friend made it seem like you're a slave essentially.
Does this happen? Should I talk to her before I start and set a time in my class schedule with her so I don't go too much over or under? Schedule it like a lab time? Do I tell her my concerns, or would I come across as a slacker? I dont want to do that because shes giving me this opportunity and she's going out of her way to do it.
Like I said, she's awesome, and I don't want to ruin it and have her be disappointed in me by performing poorly/not investing enough time, etc. I have a meeting with her later this week to nail out the time commitment and everything, and I would like to go in with a better idea of what to expect and what other people's experiences have been.
Thank you so much!
She told me that she usually requires about four hours a week in the lab, which I'm totally okay with. My concern is that I was talking to my friend about it and he said that it starts out like that and then professors start demanding more and more time from you. I'm worried about this, because I like her so much and don't want to be put into a position where my mentor wants me to spend 10+ hours in the lab if I'm overwhelmed with studying and i become a disappointment. I dont think she would do this because she would want what's best for my future, but do professors have a tendency to do that? I'm totally fine with dedicating as much time as I can, even more then 4 hours if I can, but I'm concerned because my friend made it seem like you're a slave essentially.
Does this happen? Should I talk to her before I start and set a time in my class schedule with her so I don't go too much over or under? Schedule it like a lab time? Do I tell her my concerns, or would I come across as a slacker? I dont want to do that because shes giving me this opportunity and she's going out of her way to do it.
Like I said, she's awesome, and I don't want to ruin it and have her be disappointed in me by performing poorly/not investing enough time, etc. I have a meeting with her later this week to nail out the time commitment and everything, and I would like to go in with a better idea of what to expect and what other people's experiences have been.
Thank you so much!