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Breathe. Stressing yourself out is only going to make it worse. Take a day off from studying and create a plan for the next few weeks.
"As you think, so shall you become."My fear with pushing it back is due to starting full time work. I'm going from having all day 5 days a week to just having weekends to study and I'm not sure if the additional time will be beneficial.
As for the self-esteem, I didn't exactly have the healthiest relationship with my own self worth and my academics, I basically pushed myself in school not to learn but to feel good about myself and like I was actually good at something, I also did very little but school the whole time I was in college, I have lived a boring life. Also, as for the second point, I don't really think I went to the most rigorous of schools, but it wasn't a cake walk either.
I think this is one of my bigger problems, I just don't believe in myself and am always turning to the worst possible outcomes. As a reapplicant I just feel like my whole future hinges on this test, its the weakest part of my application and the area the head of admissions at my first choice school advised me to work on.
I'm not a mental health professional by any means, but it sounds like some of these issues are deeper rooted. I encourage you to seek someone to help you with these matters.My fear with pushing it back is due to starting full time work. I'm going from having all day 5 days a week to just having weekends to study and I'm not sure if the additional time will be beneficial.
As for the self-esteem, I didn't exactly have the healthiest relationship with my own self worth and my academics, I basically pushed myself in school not to learn but to feel good about myself and like I was actually good at something, I also did very little but school the whole time I was in college, I have lived a boring life. Also, as for the second point, I don't really think I went to the most rigorous of schools, but it wasn't a cake walk either.
I think this is one of my bigger problems, I just don't believe in myself and am always turning to the worst possible outcomes. As a reapplicant I just feel like my whole future hinges on this test, its the weakest part of my application and the area the head of admissions at my first choice school advised me to work on.
Well said.After all this process is done and over with, you will feel a lot better. I know for me it was a darn painful process overall.
It will all be worth it in the end.
NeverWhat are our alternatives? Get some job and be slaves to our paychecks.
Yeah dude. I've seen that side and I don't want it. I also don't want it for my family. I don't want my kids to struggle. I want to be one of those parents who help their children succeed instead of putting them in situations that makes it more difficult for them to achieve their dreams.Never
I literally get asked "Ew you want to be a dentist and look in peoples' mouths?" all the time. I want to be able to live a comfortable life, not worrying about paychecks.Yeah dude. I've seen that side and I don't want it. I also don't want it for my family. I don't want my kids to struggle. I want to be one of those parents who help their children succeed instead of putting them in situations that makes it more difficult for them to achieve their dreams.
I literally get asked "Ew you want to be a dentist and look in peoples' mouths?" all the time. I want to be able to live a comfortable life, not worrying about paychecks.
Guys my DAT is at the end of the month and its getting real scary right about now. I just don't feel like I know anything what so ever. I took the DAT once before but I didn't do too good, and that was also right after finishing ochem, something I have totally forgot and it seems like my studies aren't doing much to refresh. I basically pumped and dumped EVERYTHING as I went through college, I graduated with a Bio degree Magna Cum Laude, 3.948 GPA, but I don't know jack about science now. I need help just focusing at this point, I can't even review the wrong answers to a practice quiz without panicing. I just did one of chads practice gen chem quizzes and made a 33.3%! Guys what am I doing wrong? I don't think I can push my DAT back anymore either, I'm loosing it mentally at this point.
It was very difficult to balance everything while prepping. I think considering the situation I did alright, but if I had no other obligations but test prep, I would've done better.I agree with @DroppingBoxes that if you don't need to work, don't do it. Focus all of your energy into this exam. Make the exam your job. It was the only way I could personally get it over with.