My husband and I started building an addition to the house. By ourselves. With the exception of the roof and the concrete, we have put in every dang nail, cut and raised every board, hauled the rafters up to the second story
by pulley system, laid all the electrical wiring, put in the doors, the windows, the walls, the electrical subpanel, and we're now working on insulation and drywall. It's taking a while. But it's a 2 story addition that will double the footprint of our house and give us a master suite (and the kids can have the other bathroom which we're all currently sharing).
On the downside, we're also broke from spending money on the building materials so far.
🙁
I figure it'll be done in time for us to spend one night in it before we leave for residency in two more years.
But as for what is "usually done". Goofing off (well deserved). Work to earn money (smart). Research (one more thing for the CV). TA a class or two (money
and CV item).