Ok so I am a male just to clear that out. My ex and I are classmates / both p1s. I am at a recently accredited school. We got into an argument, she started clawing at me and I pushed her away and elbowed her (unintentionally). She was clawing at me because I was looking at her phone after she told me she was texting her ex-boyfriend so I was looking at her phone. She was drunk and I was sober and I was taking care of her and she said she did that because she thought I wasn't in to her n whatnot and had to make me jealous. Basically shes messed up in the head. (she deleted her text msgs she sent out but I caught one received saying "we'll chat later". I was furious and she called the cops later on and I got arrested. Long story short - School got involved and I got suspended for a month until my pre-trial with the prosecutor vs me and my lawyer. Everyone hates her in my class and today we had a school hearing and I did not get any say at all today. Thats why my school continued my suspension until the case gets resolved. So if my misdemeanor level 1 doesn't get dropped, I get kicked out. If it does get dropped (which she mentioned to her friends she might do) I can come back. Thankfully the first semester isn't too bad and I can hopefully catch up and make up work. Prior to this hearing she said she was comfortable with me to come to class. But today she totally went off and made a huge deal about how I have anger problems and whatnot.
Should I just withdraw before I get kicked out? Or should I stick it out because this doesn't seem like I have enough evidence that this is what happened. At the hearing she saved all the text messages / voicemails I left about how sorry I was and whatnot.. Obviously I am sorry if I hurt her! I even took her to the hospital because I thought she was really drunk! She totally effed me over and called the cops there!
Should I just withdraw before I get kicked out? Or should I stick it out because this doesn't seem like I have enough evidence that this is what happened. At the hearing she saved all the text messages / voicemails I left about how sorry I was and whatnot.. Obviously I am sorry if I hurt her! I even took her to the hospital because I thought she was really drunk! She totally effed me over and called the cops there!